People dont know when to shutup until you hurt their little feelings
Last week I was away on a conference. There was this one lady who when I start losing my weight (I gave her a lot of my too big clothes until she started to bug me about when was I going to go through my clothes again, like it was her right to get my clothes).....any way, fast forward to the end of 2006, she starved off 80 pounds and every time she saw me she would ask me what size I was and tell me what size she was, like she was competing with me...fast foward to today, those 80 pounds has come back and I think they invited about 50 of their friends.
So we are at the conference, every time she see me she ask me what time I was going to the gym, she would say to let her know when I was going so she could go with me...the gym was right there in the building, she did not need me to go with her. When I told her I was going at 5 am, she never showed up.
So it is Wednesday morning, I come down to the conference sporting my new curly wig, folks near me are saying how cute my hair is, she yells from the other side of the room..GIRL THAT WIG LOOKS CUTE AS HELL ON YOUR HEAD..I LIKE THAT, good thing I was not faking like it was my hair. I just looked at her.
Thursday morning at breakfast, she says girl, let me talk to you for a minute. I am thinking WHAT NOW. She says..."girl I been looking at your body, you got the cardio down, but you need to do some strenght training...if you tone up, your body would be slamming. All I could say was "I got this" but in my mind I am think...if I dont lose another pound...if I dont do another set of exercise, I am already way beyound where she is at....but I say nothing.
Friday morning, sitting at breakfast, I am wearing my wig this time as a pony tail, falling to one side. She is sitting across the table and say all loud...DID YOU PLAN ON YOUR WIG BEING TO THE SIDE .
Lord knows I tried to count to 10 but I couldnt...Oh, you want to try me today....I got a freaking cold, I got to get through the day with this freaking cold and you want to try me???
I said WHAT IS WITH YOU...WHY ARE YOU ALWAYS LOOKING AT ME FROM HEAD TO TOES?...WHY ARE YOU ALL UPSIDE MY HEAD. WHAT IS ABOUT ME THAT YOU WANT TO BE LIKE BECAUSE I CANT THINK OF ANY OTHER REASON YOU WOULD HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY ABOUT ANYTHING I DO.
My supervisor who is sitting by me said...GIRL, SHE IS JUST JEALOUS. She got up and ufff off but I can say she did not say another word to me for the rest of the day. It was like she thought as long as I didnt say anything she had the right to say whatever came to her mind....I was trying to act like I had some sense since there was others folks around but she had to take me there.
So we are at the conference, every time she see me she ask me what time I was going to the gym, she would say to let her know when I was going so she could go with me...the gym was right there in the building, she did not need me to go with her. When I told her I was going at 5 am, she never showed up.
So it is Wednesday morning, I come down to the conference sporting my new curly wig, folks near me are saying how cute my hair is, she yells from the other side of the room..GIRL THAT WIG LOOKS CUTE AS HELL ON YOUR HEAD..I LIKE THAT, good thing I was not faking like it was my hair. I just looked at her.
Thursday morning at breakfast, she says girl, let me talk to you for a minute. I am thinking WHAT NOW. She says..."girl I been looking at your body, you got the cardio down, but you need to do some strenght training...if you tone up, your body would be slamming. All I could say was "I got this" but in my mind I am think...if I dont lose another pound...if I dont do another set of exercise, I am already way beyound where she is at....but I say nothing.
Friday morning, sitting at breakfast, I am wearing my wig this time as a pony tail, falling to one side. She is sitting across the table and say all loud...DID YOU PLAN ON YOUR WIG BEING TO THE SIDE .
Lord knows I tried to count to 10 but I couldnt...Oh, you want to try me today....I got a freaking cold, I got to get through the day with this freaking cold and you want to try me???
I said WHAT IS WITH YOU...WHY ARE YOU ALWAYS LOOKING AT ME FROM HEAD TO TOES?...WHY ARE YOU ALL UPSIDE MY HEAD. WHAT IS ABOUT ME THAT YOU WANT TO BE LIKE BECAUSE I CANT THINK OF ANY OTHER REASON YOU WOULD HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY ABOUT ANYTHING I DO.
My supervisor who is sitting by me said...GIRL, SHE IS JUST JEALOUS. She got up and ufff off but I can say she did not say another word to me for the rest of the day. It was like she thought as long as I didnt say anything she had the right to say whatever came to her mind....I was trying to act like I had some sense since there was others folks around but she had to take me there.
All I wanna know is did you yell hay wait you left five of your friends ooh my bad thats all you Boo! PEACE OUT and give her the peace sign! Girl you did marvelous because I would have let into her like a chinese man on some rice. That is exactly the issue she is straight up jealous. Sometimes unfortunately people don't stop until you go there with them.
That is sad to hear but you gave her plenty of chances to leave you alone.
fast forward to today, those 80 pounds has come back and I think they invited about 50 of their friends.
Now that was hilarious............
Just keep it moving.........I'm at the point in my life that I know folks are going to talk but now I will give them something to really talk about. All of their hating is my motivation to keep it moving and losing.
fast forward to today, those 80 pounds has come back and I think they invited about 50 of their friends.
Now that was hilarious............Just keep it moving.........I'm at the point in my life that I know folks are going to talk but now I will give them something to really talk about. All of their hating is my motivation to keep it moving and losing.
When nothing else could help................LOVE lifted me!!!!
It's a shame as women we can't be happier for each other. I'd just pity her!!
~Shani~
I've been pudgy, chubby, thick, and now fat........Imma give thin a go round!!!
SW-262, size 18W, 5'6"
CW-168 1/15/2010
GW-162
94 Lbs down...6 more to go...changed goal to see Onderland for a hot second!
LaVerne, I'm surprised you didn't just POP her one in the mouth.
"When Alexander saw the breadth of his domain, he wept for there were no more worlds to conquer." Plutach. Not true, for there are always more worlds to conquer.
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