Dam, I know I'm fat but am I that dam fat. Hurt Feelings

I do think i'm fat that is why I call myself fat,  Becca thinks I have body dismorphic disorder and I don't argue that,  but I am not so fat that someone has to break down crying and laughing so hard they can't breath.

I do think i'm fat that is why I call myself fat,  Becca thinks I have body dismorphic disorder and I don't argue that


It sounds like you have a starting point to work from.  It's not really your body that's the problem; it's how you see it.  We could tell you over and over again that you don't look fat, but until you believe it, it won't change the way you feel.  Maybe talking to someone who specializes in this field might be beneficial. 

IMO, I think most women (even the super skinny ones) have some feature about their body that they wish they could tweak and make it perfect.  Sometimes I'll admit that I get a little bit down about the extra skin, especially my sides and tummy.  I would probably drop several sizes if it were gone, but it would require extensive surgery to remove it all.  My husband (bless his heart) told me he didn't want them cutting me again because he can't risk anything happening to me. 

I think back to where I've come from and realize that compared to when I was MO, I look and feel so much better, even with all the imperfections of my body. 

hurt people, hurt people.   i'm sorry lee, i hope you feel better this morning.

Hi Marlo

Yeah I do feel better this morning.

((((((Lee))))))

First of all she isn't a friend.  If she was and she really thought you looked fat she would have said it in a more constructive way.

Second, I looked through every last one of those pictures and you ARE NOT FAT.

If you need to use her insults for motivation so be it but don't trip!!!

~Tel~

Hi Tel

I think she knew what she was doing when she kept laughing and when she said did you eat a whole camel I was done. 

some people just have no tact....don't let it get next to you.  There are haters around us just waiting to see us fail because they are JEALOUS!!!

Girl everyone in my life seems to be sitting on edge waiting for me to fail and now that I have gained weight I feel like such a failure because i'm doing what they expect.  I have really distanced myself from everyone cause i'm tired of all the negatives.

Wow...Friend the Biotch sounds jealous to me " know your ass is not that fat Miss. Bypass. " fck her You should have told that Trollop you  didn't know what was wrong with her computer and it would take your Fat Ass  a minute to figure it out! 

Lee you are so not FAT ((Lee)) . You work out harder then anyone I know . More then my "FA" keep being and inspiration to us newbies  

Yeah that Miss. Bypass was a serious dig.   But like I told her it doesn't matter how much weight I have gained you are still twice my size.