Dam, I know I'm fat but am I that dam fat. Hurt Feelings

Lee you are looking great...please don't allow a jealous person put doubt in your mind and steal your joy. The next time you run into her just say:

I asked her did you even notice the pyramids or anything in the pictures and she said all I noticed was the fat chick in front of the pyramids.  LOL,  and I wasn't even looking fat in that picture.


She has never even left her dam home town once and I think she is jealous of not just me but the fact that I have the time and money to travel and she has neither.

Lesia, this person sounds awfully jealous to me. You look great in those pics. Just read my siggie and that says it all about your "so called friend". With a friend like that, you don't need an enemy. But I just posted about my momma calling me fat numerous times yesterday but she has alzheimers. It still hurt but at least she has a medical reason to talk about me. lol

Hey Lee,
Ive seen some of the pcs, and you look far from fat. I can see how your friends words can be extremely hurtful. ((((Lee))))

Thanks Wendy,  yeah her words were very hurtful and she knew it.

Rita your moma has alzheimers so you have to forgive her my friend has stupidity so I have to dismiss her.

Hi Lee, seen you and Becca pic and loved them all.  And no you don't look fat I take comments like that and use them to the best I can.  The next time that person see me they have nothing to say then.      

Hi Kathleen

I'm glad you enjoyed the pictures.   She messed me up so bad I went through and deleted all the ones she said I looked fat in.   I can't believe she got to me like that.

O.K. Lee go back and replace those pics we all no the work you put in before you left on vacation. And you have done a fanastic job you really looked great. We can't let those that have nothing better to say get us down we know where we come from.   

Regarding this particular woman, I would cut her off.  Completely. 
She is not your friend. 

Starting today, YOU stop calling yourself fat.  Deal? 

Mean people look for your vulnerable spot and that's where they stick in the knife and twist it.  Don't give them any ammunition. 

Lee, you are beautiful and funny and smart.  Never forget that.  You have a partner who loves you.  You've been to places and experienced things that most of us can only dream about or watch on TV.  From where I'm sitting, you have an amazing life. 

If you have fitness and weight goals that you want to achieve, do it for yourself.  Not because you feel bad about yourself, but because you want to be your very best.