Dam, I know I'm fat but am I that dam fat. Hurt Feelings

I showed my vacation pics to a friend and as soon as she started looking at them she busts out laughing so hard she could barely breath, after she pull her dam self together she says why did you put your heads on those fat bodies cause I know your ass is not that fat Miss. Bypass.   So I says shut the **** up that is me in all my fat ass glory, she tells me no it is not cause Becca's tits are not that huge.  She absolutely refused to believe that the first picture was real.

Now I don't deny that I am fat but DAMMM.  After I spent 2 hours helping her with computer problems my pay off is a huge insult that I can't get out of my head. 

She called me this morning to apologize again, she said she was just shocked and that maybe it was her computer.  I told her yeah I am pretty fat but i'm mearly half her size.

My fat ass is going to really clean my diet back up and get back to running and working out.

Am I the only one who has gotten this reaction from a weight gain?    I know people want us to fail but geez.

Baby girl, foolish people don't think before they speak..............I saw your pic's and I didn't see no fat chick...................Hater's will always find something negative to say...............Do you and love the new you.  You have done a great job................

Thing is she is like 300 pounds and even so it still really hurt my feelings,  I had a dam nightmare about being really really fat again.

Don't let it bother you Lee.  When people say stupid stuff like that, they are either jealous of your current state or are jealous of your potential.  Yes words like that do hurt, but just shake it off & keep on walking with your head held high.  I have gotten some stupid remarks from both fat & skinny friends & that's what I chalk it up to.  For my fat friends, I will soon not be the biggest one & for my skinny friends, I will soon no longer be the fat friend & will give them a run for their money!.   

One of my mama's sayings is, everyone is not celebrating your victories or accomplisments & would like nothing better to see you fail.   But got to give it to her though, at least she apologized.

I had someone to tell me about four months back...ooh chile what's wrong with your cheeks...they are are rising you must have put on weight.  What makes people think you want to hear their point of view on your weight gain?  SMDH.  I knew I had gained but I did not need anyone to point it out to me. It was a wake up call because it did put my butt back into gear and I have lost all what I have gained plus a little more.   BTW,  are you going to work on her computer anymore?

Talk about a wake up call.   You should have heard the happiness in her voice, she was actually excited that i'm fat.

She can shove her computer

You ARE NOT fat.  Not the you I saw in thoe pictures anyway and that was really you am I right?  You are NOT fat.

Girlfriend is twice your size you say???       There's a green eyed monster there.   Fat comments from someone like that lack all credibility.

We know how far we've come so we will always be sensitive about weight issues.  You look good and you're fit enough to run like someone's chasing you, trying to run you over.  Don't let that person's fat and going nowhere attitude bring you down. 

Girl even had the nerve to say Dam what did you eat one of those camels that the men offered you for marriage.   I was like What the Fluck are you talking about, you are way fatter than I am and she says Yeah but I didn't have surgery to lose weight.

WTF

How the hell do you come back on that,

Damn, sounds like she is on a mission of mean!  Instead of worrying about your weight, she should be worrying about why she chooses to act so evil.  The ***** has major issues. 

Girl please...you ain't no where near fat. Some people are just insensitive.  The whole time I was getting my dress altered before the wedding the lady kept saying (in my Asian voice) You need loose weigh before wedding, dress fit better then. I wanted to tell her HEFFA I JUST LOST 100 LBS!!!  Don't let her get you down. If you gained a few pounds, you still aren't were she is nor where you use to be.