OT-How do you handle this situation???

Thanks Michelle. That means a lot to me.

Andrea, the best thing I know to tell you is from what I have seen and heard on this board from you is that you are a beautiful person inside and out and please do not allow anyone to steal your joy.  I am sitting here in total disbelief that someone would have the audacity to tell another person this.  SMDH

Thank you Faith. I was in disbelief too. I kept looking around to see if Ashton Kucher was going to jump out. I just knew I was being punked.

I created my own universe several years ago. I don't let anyone in without a special password.  If they are full of BS, they don't get a pass to come in.  My friends and fam that acted crazy when i had surgery - are still waiting on their pass. I refuse to be stressed out under any cir****tances. 

Then once I got to 50, then once I had surgery etc. the passwords change...yet again.  lol

Translation#1:
I think I'm wonderful 24 hours a day.  They all know it, I wear it on my face.  They get back from me what they give.  Friends and family know not to stay anything real ridiculous to me. 

Translation 2 and mantra : You have to train people how to treat you. 
Remarks - either pray and let it go and hit it head on.  Next time give it to him....... And who died and made you a Beauty God ?

Have a greattttttttttttt day!

Thanks Chicago Candy. I am going to have to steal that and apply it to my life.

Sorry to hear that happened to you.. 

I think people know who to appraoach with foolishness.
 
My comment would have been "***** You and your ho azz momma too ol punk azz" . 

I am one of those if you say something to TRY and hurt me I will come back with something to bring you down to your knees. Ask my hubby if you think I am kidding. 

 

Other than people who are in my inner circle (which is very few) there is very little ANYBODY can say too me and hurt my feelings.. seriously.

  My DAWG!!!!!!

I think yall already KNOW can't a mofo PUNK me - I wish somebody WOULD say some ish........

Now - one thing I WON'T buck up to is a BIG ole biotch - cause I realize I am a lightweight - I have to do some swift mental calculations of distance, speed and exit strategies before deciding if I wanna go hard........ LOL!!!! I'll throw a brick and RUN in a heartbeat!!!!! 

My comment would have been "***** You and your ho azz momma too ol punk azz"

Rhonda?  Well now my whole image of you has changed....

 @ "***** You and your ho azz momma too ol punk azz" . 

Note to self:  Don't ever, ever, ever, ever **** Mrs. Rhonda off!

I know, right?  Don't let the light skin fool ya!!!!