OT: The moment you KNOW you have fallen OUT
of love with someone......... do you remember these just like you do the falling IN?
yea - I'm saying SCREW the stalker!!!! *insert middle finger smiley here*
I've never been able to run and hide..........
Just curious - most often the whole whirlwind of beginning a relationship is so syrupy sweet you make all your friends SICK of your behind with all the lovey-dovey talk..... then - at the end - it boils down to 'that mofo right THUR!' or 'this sommabiotch HERE!'
So - do you recall that moment? For me - it's the moment I discover that the measure or the heart of a man isn't what I thought or it was promised to be - that the mofo in my bed ain't REALLY the mofo I am sleeping with inside - mofo just frontin the game.
what say you?????
yea - I'm saying SCREW the stalker!!!! *insert middle finger smiley here*
I've never been able to run and hide.......... Just curious - most often the whole whirlwind of beginning a relationship is so syrupy sweet you make all your friends SICK of your behind with all the lovey-dovey talk..... then - at the end - it boils down to 'that mofo right THUR!' or 'this sommabiotch HERE!'
So - do you recall that moment? For me - it's the moment I discover that the measure or the heart of a man isn't what I thought or it was promised to be - that the mofo in my bed ain't REALLY the mofo I am sleeping with inside - mofo just frontin the game.
what say you?????
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most often the whole whirlwind of beginning a relationship is so syrupy sweet you make all your friends SICK of your behind with all the lovey-dovey talk..... then - at the end - it boils down to 'that mofo right THUR!' or 'this sommabiotch HERE 
.
First off good for you SCREW THE STALKER!!!!
Second yes I started wondering WTF did I see in the MOFO in the first place. I think they get us with this lovey dovey BS then when they get comfortable they flip the script on us.
HELL TO THE NAW!!! that ain't happening cause his azz gotta go. In my past when I have brought it up about the change they were quick to wanna say it was me and that I changed??? WTF 
Then my answer back to that MOFO is why didnt you bring it up first. So now I'm at the point if I have to say it and they call them selves wanna flip-da-script they azz is history. I DON'T NEED NO DRAMA IN MY LIFE. 
SEE YA DON'T WANNA BE YA!!!!!
.First off good for you SCREW THE STALKER!!!!
Second yes I started wondering WTF did I see in the MOFO in the first place. I think they get us with this lovey dovey BS then when they get comfortable they flip the script on us.
HELL TO THE NAW!!! that ain't happening cause his azz gotta go. In my past when I have brought it up about the change they were quick to wanna say it was me and that I changed??? WTF Then my answer back to that MOFO is why didnt you bring it up first. So now I'm at the point if I have to say it and they call them selves wanna flip-da-script they azz is history. I DON'T NEED NO DRAMA IN MY LIFE. SEE YA DON'T WANNA BE YA!!!!! 
Good one Mack.
For me it was when he knocked on my door, I looked through the peephole and sat my a$$ back down.
After he finally left I was like whoa how things have changed; that would never have happened just a few weeks before. I would have been fiend out to be with him.
It all boils down to what you mentioned. I realized that he wasn't the person who he portrayed himself to be and no matter how hard I tried I would never have been able to make him into the person I wanted or vise verse.
For me it was when he knocked on my door, I looked through the peephole and sat my a$$ back down.
After he finally left I was like whoa how things have changed; that would never have happened just a few weeks before. I would have been fiend out to be with him.
It all boils down to what you mentioned. I realized that he wasn't the person who he portrayed himself to be and no matter how hard I tried I would never have been able to make him into the person I wanted or vise verse.
Honeymoon Challenge!
Girl - I KNOW what you mean! I call it the bucket principle - I know I ain't worried bout a mofo when the hole or delta they will leave behind by vacating my life is as large as the hole left in a bucket of water if you stick your hand down to the bottom, then withdraw it.......
think bout that one for a min
feel me?
think bout that one for a min
feel me?
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I fall into this category right now
-most often the whole whirlwind of beginning a relationship is so syrupy sweet you make all your friends SICK of your behind with all the lovey-dovey talk.
However, I try not to get into name calling no matter how bad I might want to say this..."that
was no good for me."
-most often the whole whirlwind of beginning a relationship is so syrupy sweet you make all your friends SICK of your behind with all the lovey-dovey talk.However, I try not to get into name calling no matter how bad I might want to say this..."that
was no good for me." People are so worried about what they eat between Christmas and the New Year, but they really should be worried about what they eat between the New Year and Christmas. ~Author Unknown
Yea - you still cooking cabbage and collard greens - holla at me when you throw that mofo a ham sammich with no mustard!
LMAOOOOOOO
LMAOOOOOOO
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Your post really got me thinking. As you know, I have been married for 20 years and now heading into a divorce. So to pin point the moment I fell "out of love" with him took me some time to think about and then I realized, it wasn't a particular moment, it was several that spanned over years. Let me explain, I believe there are different levels of "done-ness". Meaning, that as a relationship fails, it does so in stages on different levels and you are then "done" with that portion of the relationship.
My marriage was rocky from the start. My husband has some mental health issues that make ANY relationship with him very hard to maintain, never mind one so critical as a marriage. He has a good heart, but has so many issues that it's hard to see it at times. Despite my best efforts to get him and our marriage the help it needed, the end was inevitable. As it died, it did so first on the level of trust, then communication, then emotional support, then physical connectedness and so on and so on. Now, I love him for the man God made him to be, for being the father of my child, for all that is good about him and that is all. I'm not "in love" him and can't remember a time when I was.
Let me say this as well, other than the relationship we have with God, the one we have with our spouse is the most important. To love someone is to except that being "in love" changes as the relationship grows. The color of love deepens in tone and the love takes on a whole new beautiful color that pales in comparison to the newness of falling in love.
Falling in love takes a moment, being in love takes a lifetime.
Great post as always Trina!!!
My marriage was rocky from the start. My husband has some mental health issues that make ANY relationship with him very hard to maintain, never mind one so critical as a marriage. He has a good heart, but has so many issues that it's hard to see it at times. Despite my best efforts to get him and our marriage the help it needed, the end was inevitable. As it died, it did so first on the level of trust, then communication, then emotional support, then physical connectedness and so on and so on. Now, I love him for the man God made him to be, for being the father of my child, for all that is good about him and that is all. I'm not "in love" him and can't remember a time when I was.
Let me say this as well, other than the relationship we have with God, the one we have with our spouse is the most important. To love someone is to except that being "in love" changes as the relationship grows. The color of love deepens in tone and the love takes on a whole new beautiful color that pales in comparison to the newness of falling in love.
Falling in love takes a moment, being in love takes a lifetime.
Great post as always Trina!!!
@ Falling in love takes a moment, being in love takes a lifetime.PREACH!!!!!
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