OT..Cheating...What is it??
Me and one of my girlfriends was talking and the topic of cheating came up.
so my question for you guys is cheating is it about cheating that i bothers you the most? Is it the physical act or the lying and dishonesty? Second part to the question is what do you consider cheating? Is talking about cheating considered cheating? Does cheating require any type of physical connection?
In my opinion its the dishonesty that is the most difficult to get past. Once you lie to me I have a hard time not second guessing everything you say and that goes for cheating bf/spouse/friends or family.
As for what is considered cheating its both physical and mental. if you are leading a life where you are out wining and dining some other chic like she is your lady thats cheating. If you are leading her to believe that there can be something else between you too other than friendship, that's cheating. So regardless of whether you (as double..Ayy put) get down with the get down, you can still be cheating.
so my question for you guys is cheating is it about cheating that i bothers you the most? Is it the physical act or the lying and dishonesty? Second part to the question is what do you consider cheating? Is talking about cheating considered cheating? Does cheating require any type of physical connection?
In my opinion its the dishonesty that is the most difficult to get past. Once you lie to me I have a hard time not second guessing everything you say and that goes for cheating bf/spouse/friends or family.
As for what is considered cheating its both physical and mental. if you are leading a life where you are out wining and dining some other chic like she is your lady thats cheating. If you are leading her to believe that there can be something else between you too other than friendship, that's cheating. So regardless of whether you (as double..Ayy put) get down with the get down, you can still be cheating.
I'm with Rhonda........anything I would have to lie about is off limits.
~Shani~
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cheating: mimicking the mental, emotional, physical bond he has with me with someone else. that's how i define it and that's what would bother me most. not that a one night stand wouldn't bother me, but it wouldn't scar me. no such thing as *just happened* sneakiness involves preparation.
cheating: mimicking the mental, emotional, physical bond he has with me with someone else. that's how i define it and that's what would bother me most. not that a one night stand wouldn't bother me, but it wouldn't scar me. no such thing as *just happened* sneakiness involves preparation.
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If you're hiding anything at all you're cheating. If it was truely innocent, you'd speak freely about it with your loved one.
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It's the mental and emotional for me - physical is blah.
I do believe that sex can be just an act - so a one time fling, not so serious but a long stading interaction..... gotta cut cha! LOL
I do believe that sex can be just an act - so a one time fling, not so serious but a long stading interaction..... gotta cut cha! LOL
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