OT - Let's get it on...
Ayy yo,
Put on your red dress.
And slip on your high heels
And some of that sweet perfume
It sure smells good on you
You know what that means don't ya? Oh yeah of course you do. But how come when it's time to get down to "da git down" you go over to your corner and I go over to mine; we both undress; and then just hop up onto the bed, going at it like two xes starved heaveyweight boxers trying to win our own individual champsion belts in our minds?
Hmmm... Like the poet Keith Sweat once said, "Sumpin, sumpin... Sumpin, sumpin jess ain't riiiiight..."
Where's the intimacy? Where's the romance? Where's your appreciation for MY dayum sexxy drawers that I spent $12 on at KMart?
But I digress...
Have we literally "fugged" the intimacy out of our xes lives? Do we even bother to get dressed for xes anymore? What happened to the art of kissing, holding, caressing? Nowadays, it seems to be just like comedian John Witherspoon says, "It's just bang, bang, bang...!" Are we just so into our own wants and needs xesually until we forego that which we came together to do in the first place - be intimate with each other?
Holla atcha boy.
Put on your red dress.
And slip on your high heels
And some of that sweet perfume
It sure smells good on you
You know what that means don't ya? Oh yeah of course you do. But how come when it's time to get down to "da git down" you go over to your corner and I go over to mine; we both undress; and then just hop up onto the bed, going at it like two xes starved heaveyweight boxers trying to win our own individual champsion belts in our minds?
Hmmm... Like the poet Keith Sweat once said, "Sumpin, sumpin... Sumpin, sumpin jess ain't riiiiight..."
Where's the intimacy? Where's the romance? Where's your appreciation for MY dayum sexxy drawers that I spent $12 on at KMart?
But I digress...
Have we literally "fugged" the intimacy out of our xes lives? Do we even bother to get dressed for xes anymore? What happened to the art of kissing, holding, caressing? Nowadays, it seems to be just like comedian John Witherspoon says, "It's just bang, bang, bang...!" Are we just so into our own wants and needs xesually until we forego that which we came together to do in the first place - be intimate with each other?
Holla atcha boy.
I am a firm believer in the art of kissing, holding and caressing. It increases (or it should increase) the arousal/intmacy of both parties. By participating in 4play, IMO, it shows your partner/so that you are really into him/her. Also little surprises helps to...for example going over your significant other's house dressed in regular clothing and as you are being undressed he discovers that you have on "easily accessible" blue lingerie 
and to watch the expression of increased excitement on his face...the rewards afterward are priceless.
and to watch the expression of increased excitement on his face...the rewards afterward are priceless. People are so worried about what they eat between Christmas and the New Year, but they really should be worried about what they eat between the New Year and Christmas. ~Author Unknown
...OMG...you didn't say rub a litte KFC fried chicken grease behind each earlobe...WHEW...now that's just funny. 
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