Who Is Looking At You Now.

 Question ??

 Since you have lost a lot of weight are people looking at you differently? Ladies are the men who once wouldn't look your way looking at you now?  Only the outside changed. You are still the same on the inside. Men what is your take. Are the Women knocking on your door too?

Mike Jones said it best.....

"Back then, you didn't want me - now I'm hot, you all on me"

hey Lis! 

like anything else i suppose, there are things that are nice about it, more people take notice of you.  and then there are things that are not so nice about it, like more people take notice of you.  personally i went from being the invisible cute girl's sidekick to an object.   it might sound weird to say but:  i'm not sure which one is worse. 

Hey Lisa.

Yes,and Yes.  It's a fairly common experience, and most of us develop an attitude about it .  For awhile we walk around scowling at folk asking  "how you like me now?"

You will always be protective of the big girl inside you. She has feelings dammit; but things get better.  Somewhere along the way you stop feeling rejected and understand that people have preferences.  That doesn't mean you let the nukkas who wouldn't take the time to get to know "you" off the hook; however, it does allow you to sashay past them, issue your own "no thanks", and keep it moving.  

Continued success.   

Only the outside changed. You are still the same on the inside.

I have to be honest, *I* am not the same inside. Really, I have been taking a long hard look at myself and I realized that I really am different. I am much more confident now. Not saying that I wasn't confident before but it is different. I own my "sexy" and this is apparent to people who see me now as opposed to then. So, that being said, I am not mad at any new attention that wasn't there before. Also people are attracted to what they are attracted to. I too have my preferences so if I wasn't what certain men preferred then but I am now, I really don't have a problem with it.

I get more attention but not really different attention.  I'm still a magnet for loosers and not the good kind like us.  Lol.