Was I wrong for this????

Ok - my mama thru a lil mini tantrum with me yesterday.  What had happened wuz.......

Friday at around 11am she calls me at work, asking me if I can bring her an order from this seafood place out here by my job - which would have usually been cool except for the fact that we had auditors on site Friday and they were going to be interviewing me that afternoon after lunch and I still needed to brush up and get ready on the material they would cover with me AND I had a hair appointment that was clear plum nelly from my job AND I had to get babygirl from her last day at space camp EXACTLY on time to make it to get my hair done.

so...... I told her no, not today - anyday NEXT week - I got you.  She tried to cover up being pissed, but whatever.  There a zillion resturants that deliver right near her house PLUS she even said she had leftovers from the order from LAST week.  Whatever.

She comes over yesterday for me to do her hair - she comes in looking like she doesn't feel okay.  She is diabetic, so I ask if I need to get her something for her sugar, she says no, but I had just made spaghetti so my daughter fixed her a plate.  She ate while I did her hair.  When I got done (relaxer AND rinse yall - plenty time on my feet) she says she is feeling "pretty bad" and did i mind if she crashed on the sofa for a while?  No - go right ahead.

She then goes into the "I don't wanna be no trouble, I'll stay outta your way" routine, I'm like 'Lay yo azz down and shut the **** up' - I go about the rest of what I had plan, which was cooking.  So while she's sleep, I'm up and doing my thing.  I get finished and FINALLY lay down (my back is screaming at me) and 10 min later, SHE gets up - now she's ready to get on my daughter about cleaning her room.  I hear that mess going on in my room, but I stay in the bed.  Then 5 min into it, she calls me to "Come here" - I get to my daughter's room - she asks me to KNEEL DOWN and look up under the bed to make sure ain't nothing under there, she can't do it (just had knee surgery 2 weeks ago)

Now........ I know I am 8 weeks post surgery myself - but i am JUST getting to be able to move around and be okay my DAYUM self - and the way my back had cut the fool on me 30 min earlier - i knew if I got up under that bed, it was gonna be all she wrote and I would not be able to get into work today.  SO I TOLD HER NAWWWW I CAN'T DO IT.

WHY she catch the azz and go get all her shiot and burn off out the house like I threw hot fish grease on her?????  HUH?????  Mind you I just did her hair AND had gone to pick up rent money on HER rental property the day before - so was I outta line for NOT doing everydang thing she wishes????  it seemed a bit petty to me for her to go off like that.

You and your momma!!! (SMH)

Your house, your rules...... No disrespect here..

LOL!!!!  I knew you would be quick to reply!  LOL  Only my mama can stress me out like that!  I can say that I am getting better tho - 3 years ago I would have been typing this from my bed cause I would have done it anyway.

But I still get wound up!!! 

 Your mother must be kin to my aunt.  She's one of those people who will do anything for you but the moment you don't back her or jump to do something that she wants you to do (which is usually at the wrong time) she catches a hissy fit and tears azz out of the house.

Gotta love 'em or you'd probably kill'm

and you HAVE to kill they azz cause they won't die on they own!!!!!! 

I swear I have told her that I don't worry bout her even with all her health problems cause God and the Devil ain't finished sorting out WHO gon take her - they STILL playin hot potato.......

   I LOVE these Mama stories!  Trina, her day just isn't complete till she takes you 'there'!
She knows how to push your buttons and likes doing it!  She was probably smiling as she stormed out saying to herself....mission accomplished...till next week!  LMAO!

girl OKAY?????  We were doing JUST fine for too long - I shoulda SEEN it coming......

I just love your response!

Gotta love these teezy fitt from these mamma's. Why is she trying to run your house. You didn't even get on your daughter but it's funny how people get on your kids for something you are no worried about at that moment. GO FIGURE.

Man - she is forever trying to set 'standards' and 'rules' for my daugther - complete with instructions to ME on how she wants to see follow thru or whatever on my part. 

 i ain't doing it lessen I FEEL like it.  I paid her azz FULL market price for that house - it's MINE and I ain't doin nothing in it I don't wanna!!!!