Question for the parents
the lady who despises her child makes me sad n' weepy. 
mack hold that deuce, don't drive off yet. my disclaimer is that i react to everything slowly. that day i was flooded with thoughts, rather than emotions. they put her in my arrms, she blinks, yawns, opens her eyes. now my nerves were a mess so i can't stop shaking/shivering and i'm studying her all national geographic-like tryna see whose face that is.
i dunno anything bout whachu *supposed* to feel right then but all i could manage was
and they wheel her off. they kept bringing her in the room (i had back labor so i couldn't go to her) and finally i said look, i'm single, i won't sleep for 3 years, please lemme have these next 40 hours...please. when we got home i didn't stop crying for 2 weeks cuz "she's healthy and sweet and all mine" LOL. fast forward 11 months later, at the pediatrician's office and i wanna know why she isn't trying to take her first steps. dr say: probably because you won't put her down. 
i think there absolutely is a feeling that overcomes you but not nec. the same moment/time for everybody.
Can anything make a parent fall "out of love" with their child/children?
yes. it's called colic, but when it goes away, the love returns.
mack hold that deuce, don't drive off yet. my disclaimer is that i react to everything slowly. that day i was flooded with thoughts, rather than emotions. they put her in my arrms, she blinks, yawns, opens her eyes. now my nerves were a mess so i can't stop shaking/shivering and i'm studying her all national geographic-like tryna see whose face that is.
i dunno anything bout whachu *supposed* to feel right then but all i could manage was
and they wheel her off. they kept bringing her in the room (i had back labor so i couldn't go to her) and finally i said look, i'm single, i won't sleep for 3 years, please lemme have these next 40 hours...please. when we got home i didn't stop crying for 2 weeks cuz "she's healthy and sweet and all mine" LOL. fast forward 11 months later, at the pediatrician's office and i wanna know why she isn't trying to take her first steps. dr say: probably because you won't put her down. i think there absolutely is a feeling that overcomes you but not nec. the same moment/time for everybody.
Can anything make a parent fall "out of love" with their child/children?
yes. it's called colic, but when it goes away, the love returns.
be happy, laughter burns calories
LOL...I don't know who's worse...you or MM!!! LOL
" fast forward 11 months later, at the pediatrician's office and i wanna know why she isn't trying to take her first steps. dr say: probably because you won't put her down. "
ROFLMBO @ the doctor......he was right and that was too cute! LOL
Thanks for sharing!
" fast forward 11 months later, at the pediatrician's office and i wanna know why she isn't trying to take her first steps. dr say: probably because you won't put her down.
"ROFLMBO @ the doctor......he was right and that was too cute! LOL
Thanks for sharing!
Mrs. Trina
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on 7/17/09 7:16 am - syracuse, NY
on 7/17/09 7:16 am - syracuse, NY
My friend has a son who should be walking but everyone in his family spoils him...he is always in someones lap......he crys like crazy if you put him down
Kennedi--had been in labor over 32 hours....when they finally induced me....it only took 3 hours...and when they tossed her on my belly, I gagged! They gave her to me, I gave her to my sister....when released from the hospital....my brother got her immediately. I was breast-feeding so I would go feed her....he had to work and I called my moms and told her "come get this baby!"
She was there for a day and my pump was not helping me...I drove to my moms house...fed the baby....and came back home...
I started spending more time with her when she was 6 weeks.
Kerrigan....I could not put her down...I just wanted to hold and love her...bond with her immediately. She stayed in my room not the nursey....Kenn stayed in the nursery at the hospital....
The difference....with Kenn I was tired....very tired.....and was depressed....still grieving the murder of my favorite cousin who had been killed a little over a month! My mind was not right and I could not deal with a crying baby....and LOVE....I loved them before they were born....I put music on my belly....read to my belly....talked to my belly LOL
I miss it now that I am older...~sigh~
I'm happy for you.
She was there for a day and my pump was not helping me...I drove to my moms house...fed the baby....and came back home...
I started spending more time with her when she was 6 weeks.
Kerrigan....I could not put her down...I just wanted to hold and love her...bond with her immediately. She stayed in my room not the nursey....Kenn stayed in the nursery at the hospital....
The difference....with Kenn I was tired....very tired.....and was depressed....still grieving the murder of my favorite cousin who had been killed a little over a month! My mind was not right and I could not deal with a crying baby....and LOVE....I loved them before they were born....I put music on my belly....read to my belly....talked to my belly LOL
I miss it now that I am older...~sigh~
I'm happy for you.
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