Question for the parents

Most welcome!  It is a powerful love.  None other like it on earth! 

Girl, I have to give you the comedy side to this, them jokers and yes, I say them jokers (with love).  My daughter, who is now 16, was such a difficult delivery that I was HIGH AS KITE!  So unfortunately, I can't describe the way I felt when she first came out, BUT my goodness, NOW, I just want to send her back.... LMBO..  Also, I was married at the time and my then "crack-head husband" was almost missing in action...  Yep, I think he was coming down off his high at the time...  And had the nerve to bring his mother to the hospital, while I am laying up there pushing -- all my business hanging out!!!!  UGH!!  I was heated.  But I did NOT transfer any of those bad feelings then or now to the love of my child.

My son, who is 9 years old, almost killed me!  YEP, BP shot up at the end and I was almost a goner.  Good thing I had a good OB and my baby daddy was a trooper.  So when I first saw his "yellow" face, I was like, why is he so light?  Then I said, "what a beautiful joy"....  He was just my blessing to me, simply my blessing.....

Almost 10 years later, he is getting on my LAST NERVE!!!  Think he's my father and my husband!!!

Either way, enjoy your pregancy and enjoy the thrill of getting to know your first born.  Everyone's experience is different.

I will say, that I do know from experience, certain situations at certain times, may or may not change the way you feel about your kids.  NOT saying it's right, but it does happen.  But we need to realize that these children did NOT ask to come into this world and have to deal with all of OUR drama!!!  Feel me?

Kids are a gift from God, whether we ask for them or not.  How we bring them up and treat them, is totally on us....

God Bless

Why am i sitting here laughing...I can here you saying "Boy...You tryn to kill me!?!?" LOL

The comedy side of it is just as good as any of it....Thank you sweetie!

Hey Trina

I'll give you a little hee-hee. Your baby is swimming around in amniotic fluid. Taken from Wikipedia:

After a further 10 weeks the liquid contains proteins, carbohydrates, lipids and phospholipids, urea and electrolytes, all of which aid in the growth of the fetus. In the late stages of gestation much of the amniotic fluid consists of fetal urine.

I was like: Oh no, I will not kiss him when he comes out . They will have to clean and fully sanitize him before I would touch him.

My pregnancy was very difficult and he decided to come early. Lots of complications and such but I tell you, when the pulled him out (c-sect) and I heard him cry, I was literally HOWLING with joy. After they checked him out and brought him over to me I was STILL HOWLING. I kissed that pissy baby of mine over and over again.

My baby is seven now and I still feel that way about him. Remember Women of Brewster's place and how Oprah's bootleg son left her high and dry and she lost her home? Well, she still held out hope that he would come back so that they could be a family again.

Okay, I'm done...***looking for tissues cause now my heart if feeling full***

Yeah...I read that in my prenatal information and I said I wasn't going to kiss the little nassy baby until they cleaned them off......but just like you I'm probably going to give a ton of kisses, nassy and all!

Thanks for sharing sweetie!

I thought to myself:  "Who knew a black baby could be so white!!"  That was my first thought before passing out!  LOL!!

okay!?!.....I have 11 neices/nephews and I swear all them (except 3) came out looking like they all belonged to another family! The get dark quick though! LOL

Thanks for sharing!

  you are going to HATE what I am about to say - cause this shiot right here is CLASSIC MACK.......

I was 7.5 months preggo when I found out I was preggo - so I had babygirl 9 weeks and 1 day after the first "You're pregnant" confirmation from the doctor - so I ain't have that much time to 'wrap' my head around the whole Mommy thing.

I went into labor earlier than my due date - late at night and I didn't have her until the afternoon the next day - so no food that whole time.......

After she came out, they showed her to me, I checked her fangas and toes - 10 and 10, cool - then they wheeled her out to the nursery and my first thought was...........

CAN SOMEBODY GO GET ME A SAMMICH CAUSE I AM HONGRAY THAN A MOFO!!!!!!

...... oh yea, and when they bringing the rugrat back in the room??? 

I remember you saying you were almost due when you found out you were pregnant....I WISH like hell that was the case with me cause I'm already like....wheeeeewwww, how much longer...geeeesssh !!!!!

P.S. : Yeah, somebody gonna have to get me a sammich prior to delivery....I'm not very friendly when I'm hungry , LOL!

Thank you for sharing!

sorry cuz - once they give you the medicine - you can't eat - so just KNOW that before you step INTO the hospital!!!

curious, if you don't mind my asking - are you going to have drugs or are you doing natural delivery?