OT for today: Romance - lost art or just plain dead?

Absolutely...and he bet' not be cheep about it either!  Please don't buy some Wal-mart flowers, a snoopie card and call that my birthday present!!!  I will split a wig!

Dayum!  Who stole my moves with the Wal-Mart flowers and Snoopy card?  I swear a playa can't keep nothing to himself these days.

It just ain't right, I tell you!  Stealin' all yo swaaaaave moves! 

I want romance and I give romance.  My husband and I do slack sometimes on each other eleven years in but we all ways get things straight.  If you want it and want to keep it.  You have to be willing and able to provide it in a relationship.  That is how I keep mine going.  JMTC

Well I have to say that I believe that I may have encountered  one of these romantic guys...just when I thought romance was dead too.  It is still fresh and new (about 4 weeks) but so far he is good.  I walked out of a meeting yesterday at 3:15 and I saw a piece of paper on my windshield and I immediately noticed that no one else had one and I was saying to myself why didn't the person just call me because my numbers both cell and home are publicly available because of my notary business.  Anyway, it was the sweetest and cutest note from him saying (I won't say in exact words) but in so many words that he enjoyed bringing me lunch to my office earlier and that he was looking forward to seeing me later that evening...I could have freaking melted in the parking lot.  If he changes as our relationship grows I am going nominate him for an Oscar, Emmy, Tony and whatever else award that Hollywood has to offer because he will have truly deceived me to no end. 

Good for you Faith, you deserve some happiness and good times. Have fun!

Awww, how sweet!!! 

I want to be romanced down. I want the open the car door, send me flowers to work unexpectly, dinner when i get home and bath water ran type of romance. Is that asking to much I don't think so. So no romance No NUCKIE for you . I'm a show n tell type of girl. Show me first, second, third time then i might give up the good.

Seems to me if that ninja at the crib running bath water - he done already hit it.  LOL!!!!

And for ME - that's basic shiot.  I am talking Grey's Anatomy, candles on the clifftop in the outline of the house I am going to build and make a home for US type shiot - ya dig?

I dig ya that's right light the outline of my house ya gonna build me with 1000's of candles. Hell he get it on the clifftop shiot.