Compliments or Lies
Hey HF:
Why can't people who are losing weight just take a compliment in stride. When people say someone is looking "skinny"...I think people actually mean Comparetively speaking...if you were 350 a year ago or 6 months ago, NOW you are 100 lbs. less>>>shoooot, you are the incredible shrinking woman. If people don't want compliments about their weight, then stay FAT. I don't care whether you had WLS, go on a liquid diet, go on SB or Atkins or reduce calorie intake and lose weight...WHEN you LOSE WEIGHT FOLKS are going to say something. Guess what, if they didn't it would "*******" the person who has worked so hard to lose that weight, if no one mentioned it.
Now here's something to get pissed about: I had been working with a Company for 7 years; I wear My hair short and every two weeks I get it cut. Everytime I get it cut, the same 5-10 people say, "Oh, you have a new hair style." After 3 years I just said, "
" and moved on.
Why can't people who are losing weight just take a compliment in stride. When people say someone is looking "skinny"...I think people actually mean Comparetively speaking...if you were 350 a year ago or 6 months ago, NOW you are 100 lbs. less>>>shoooot, you are the incredible shrinking woman. If people don't want compliments about their weight, then stay FAT. I don't care whether you had WLS, go on a liquid diet, go on SB or Atkins or reduce calorie intake and lose weight...WHEN you LOSE WEIGHT FOLKS are going to say something. Guess what, if they didn't it would "*******" the person who has worked so hard to lose that weight, if no one mentioned it.
Now here's something to get pissed about: I had been working with a Company for 7 years; I wear My hair short and every two weeks I get it cut. Everytime I get it cut, the same 5-10 people say, "Oh, you have a new hair style." After 3 years I just said, "

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