OT: All my single ladies..... a suggestion

# 1 MACK_MAMA
on 7/16/09 12:13 am
Hey yall!!!  I had my therapist appt yesterday and got an 'assignment' from her that i think is very interesting. 

I have to write out a list and/or description of my man - the one that I feel i am meant to be with - the characteristics, attributes, actions, feelings, etc.

I find this interesting because it's the one thing I haven't ever sat down and wrote out.  i did this for my career and BOOM - low and behold, the job I have now is exactly what I wrote out way before the posting was even up for it and I applied. 

I believe that we conjure, or attract things into existence with the energy we project - so..... this weekend I am tasking myself with sitting down and really putting this to paper, you might want to try it - could be interesting!!! 

I don't just have issues, I have subscriptions!  I'm saving on the newsstand price.......

Check out my dating mis - adventures at: http://1macdatinggame.blogspot.com/

MarloT
on 7/16/09 12:25 am
VSG on 12/20/07 with
gurl my list made me leave the man i was with :rofl2:
                                  be happy, laughter burns calories

 

# 1 MACK_MAMA
on 7/16/09 12:27 am
and that's a GOOD thing!!!! 

I don't just have issues, I have subscriptions!  I'm saving on the newsstand price.......

Check out my dating mis - adventures at: http://1macdatinggame.blogspot.com/

Star Jones
on 7/16/09 2:38 am - National Harbor, MD
I think you laughed at my long azz list! lmao Remember it had 16 things on it and the guy had to have at least a C average which equalled out to 11 of the things. All analytical lol

~Shani~
I've been pudgy, chubby, thick, and now fat........Imma give thin a go round!!!


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MarloT
on 7/16/09 3:57 am
VSG on 12/20/07 with

u talkin to me lola? please.  you gave him options, how hard a nikka study is up to him.  ROTFL!

                                  be happy, laughter burns calories

 

Star Jones
on 7/16/09 6:11 am - National Harbor, MD
Yea you!!! lol It was months ago and all of us (the counsel) was talking about you, I think it was around the time of the Huffy dude. I think Mudda suggested a list and I ran down my 16 things and y'all laughed at me LMAO.

~Shani~
I've been pudgy, chubby, thick, and now fat........Imma give thin a go round!!!


SW-262, size 18W, 5'6"
CW-168 1/15/2010
GW-162
94 Lbs down...6 more to go...changed goal to see Onderland for a hot second!
                                           

Terri D.
on 7/16/09 12:28 am
Yes, I truly believe we speak things into existence. So, write it down and speak it out loud. 

My only caution is that you should be ready to deal in case the packaging is not what you expected.  For instance, my girlfriends and I did this same exercise a few years ago. Because they know me, they challenged whether or not I would accept my "blessing" if he were 5'4 or in a wheelchair.  My response was that God knows his daughter and her limitations.  He would really have to SPEAK to me about something like that.  I'd like to think I could be obedient, but err ahh, I've also been known to exercise free will.   
"Wise men speak because they have something to say, fools speak because they have to say something." Plato

"Do what you feel in your heart to be right, for you'll be critized anyway." Eleanor Roosevelt
 
Hugga76
on 7/16/09 12:30 am
Hey Mack,
I believe that I saw something like this on Oprah.  This woman wrote down 100 characteristics, attributes etc. of the person whom she desired and a few years later (of course non of us want to wait that long) she met and married the man whom she wrote.

I said that I was going to do it then, but I think that I will try it now.  If you hear something that catches your attention more than once you should really take it into consideration.

Thanks Mack

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MSW will not settle
on 7/16/09 4:08 am
If you hear something that catches your attention more than once you should really take it into consideration.

That is a truth if I've ever heard one.  Speaking only for me, I know that's one way God answers my prayers. 

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The One
on 7/16/09 12:31 am - Houston, TX
It's funny you have this topic because I was told by my Minister to do the same thing and make sure I was very specific. So MM when you star writing this down be very specific. You are suppose to keep the paper handy and when you do meet him then you are you go back to this piece of paper and mark out what he posses. I did this maybe last year and heck I can't find it anywhere. So I guess I will do it again this weekend.

P.S.: Remember ladies BEEEEE SPECIFIC and PICKY

Brenda
    
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