OT ~ Piggyback off of MM's post ~ Divorce

Question ~  would you ladies consider divorce if you caught your husband or SO looking at *****n the net & actually corresponding with these ladies?  How about if you notice that he looks at other female's profiles on different dating sites.....

Just wondering out loud.... I am divorced & the reason why is my first husband was a Mama's boy and every time we got into a dispute, he'd run to his mama, daddy, sister & grandparents!  It always made me look like that bad person but he could never stand up for himself.  So I said enough is enough and left.  Now I am happily married the second time around & I, too said, "TIL DEATH DO US APART"......


Prosperous

Hey Ms. Prosper:
I think that one of the keys to any good relationship is the Emotional currency each person deposits into the relationship. Believing this, one of the WORSE forms of cheating is Emotionally pouring into someone else what should be shared with one's partner/spouse. When someone is cybering (having cyber sex or cyber relationships) this cuts into the relationship. The emotional toll can be great. Sometimes these cyber relationships can get so bad that a spouse/partner may know there is a problem in the relationship but is sure that the other partner/spouse is not cheating physically - but there is a difference, even to the point of causing couples to break-up. I believe it's the same with porn...I have heard men who are addicted to it talk about the effects it has on them, their wives and their relationships (it is also costly -financially). if My Partner was searching profiles on a dating site, I would have a fit! To Me, that's like "Cruising" at a Bar!

I would be madder than a mofo......................



CAUSE I LOVE ME SOME PORN TOO!!!!!!!!!!


hahahahhahaha - that's why I am single - haven't found an 'equally yoked' FREAK yet.......

  wait hole up - it might be hot to hit up under this chair.....

**Tommy Davidson imitation** I like the bartender.....

she be servin them dranks!!!!!

@MM..You are outta control!!! i love it!!!! ROTFLOL!!!

now to the question at hand..no porn is not a deal breaker..esp if he's watching it with me. but the moment he starts fanticizing and corresponding, the nucca needs to be dropped kicked!! again, a reason i am not with the hubby (dayum..theres many reasons). to me that plays on the emotional aspect. physical is one thing..i will try to deal with that without cutting too much..but when he starts giving the emotions away...im done!!!

My ex husband started out having a thing for internet porn - he would spend hours lookin at that crap. Then he started doing the internet dating sites. Nothing like finding out your man is advertisin that he's single and no kids after you done had three! Of course he paid for his indiscretions cuz I took everything and child support. Also my ex got in trouble with the law after we were divorced when he came over and stole my credit card. Idiot was using it to pay for internet porn sites!

WTF??!!?? only one word WOW!!! but thats why he's the EX ma!!!

((((((((((((((((((((PP))))))))))))))))))))) good to see you lady!!

I really don't have an opinion on the matter but I am gonna take this time to say...it kills me how all these so-called people of "the word" x-tians are sayin' divorce is okay when CLEARLY it is unacceptable in the bible!

I just love the way some of you pick and choose the shiot you want to follow!