O/T - Questions for the brethren and sisters

(deactivated member)
on 7/13/09 5:45 am - Georgia Peach, MD
Do you smoke?


How do you feel about a woman/man who smokes?


If you meet a woman/man and you start to feel her/him, but later on find out that she/he smokes, is that a deal breaker?

If you don't smoke and your SO does, do you have designated smoke areas at home?





Hugga76
on 7/13/09 5:55 am, edited 7/13/09 5:55 am
Although I used to be what one might call a social smoker, I would never date anyone who smokes.  Don't know what I would do if I found out after the fact, I know that I wouldn't be happy and I would probably suggest that he continue to hide it like he's been doing I really hate the smell.  It gets all in your clothes and upholstery.

On the other hand, I am something of a hypocrite b/c I've been known to take a puff or two while drinking .  While I wouldn't want to get dumped over it, we all have our preferences

ETA: not to mention that having a smoker around would probably entice me to smoke

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(deactivated member)
on 7/13/09 6:03 am - Georgia Peach, MD
I use to be a social smoker years ago (still get the urge from time to time). Strange thing, I have NEVER liked the smell of smoke and have NEVER been serious with anyone who smoked.  It is a definite deal breaker for me. 

One of my best girlfriends has hidden the fact that she smokes from her man.  She recently told him and he tolerated it for a minute.  He dumped her today.  I'm left trying to console her. 
ATL Diva 2009
on 7/13/09 6:58 am - Lawrenceville, GA
Cookie,
I had a friend that lied to EVERYONE even her son about the fact she smoked. She lost many of men behind that. ((hugs))) to your friend.

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HelpMeRhonda !!
on 7/13/09 5:57 am - J. R. Ewing, TX
Do you smoke? Nope


How do you feel about a woman/man who smokes? As long as it is not done in my space I could really are less.


If you meet a woman/man and you start to feel her/him, but later on find out that she/he smokes, is that a deal breaker? Depends on what their smoking.

If you don't smoke and your SO does, do you have designated smoke areas at home? Neither of us smoke. Absolutely NO SMOKING in my house or vehicle.

(deactivated member)
on 7/13/09 6:13 am - Georgia Peach, MD
Could you tolerate a weed smoker better than a cigarette smoker?
HelpMeRhonda !!
on 7/13/09 6:38 am - J. R. Ewing, TX
Yes I could Cookie,  simply because it is not something that is done all the time (guess it is all about the person). However, if the person smoked a joint once or twice a week it wouldn't bother me at all.  
irene council
on 7/14/09 1:45 am
joint......WOW Rhonda!    Shows our age....
  

 

 



 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Dedee
on 7/14/09 11:37 pm - Home Is Where, The HEART is, Midwest
It ain't!? No one sent me the memo

I focus not on my disabilty; my focus is on my ABILITIES.  
(Dedee, 2009)              
                                            

My hearing impairment ENABLES me, not disables me.
(Dedee, 2008)


       ~Dedee   

ATL Diva 2009
on 7/13/09 6:02 am - Lawrenceville, GA
Do you smoke? No


How do you feel about a woman/man who smokes? Before my stepdad died of lung cancer it didnt matter now it disgust me.


If you meet a woman/man and you start to feel her/him, but later on find out that she/he smokes, is that a deal breaker? Yes

If you don't smoke and your SO does, do you have designated smoke areas at home?

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