How did WLS change your marriage?

I am four months out. I just wish I had a better sex drive. I know TMI. Sorry. Well anyway I think that in marriage you will only get out of it what you put into it. I love my husband, we have been married almost six years. We had our problems before marriage, so I have learned to follow my inner woman when I feel like something is wrong I address it right then an there. But I would rather deal with the man I have come to know for the past seven years than to start over with someone that I know nothing about.

Good luck with your VSG on 07/28 I had mine on 03/12/2009. I love my tool it work so well.

Channell

My Hubby has been more supportive than I could have ever imagined.  Even when I had a perforation and ulcer that nearly killed me (literally) in December, he was supportive.  He has even purchased me some new clothes because he wanted to be a part of the transformation and wanted me to look "sexy" - his words not mine.  We will have our 15 year anniversary in September and hopefully many more to follow now that I am much healthier. 

I’m only a month out of my VSG surgery, but I’ve been with my fiancé for 11 years. (we decided to put the wedding off for a year so that I would be skinny!) But he was with me in High School when I was about 100lbs lighter and he’s been with me has my weight has continued to climb. We have a really strong relationship…not perfect, but strong; and surgery has only pulled us closer together so far. He was happy with my body before and made sure that I knew that especially after I started talking about having surgery, but NOW he’s also very happy with my new body. We just had this talk last night, and I always thought that before surgery I was outgoing. I knew over the last few years I had become more self conscious when it came to my body, but I guess I just didn’t think anyone else realized it. Then last night we were at dinner with friends and on our way home he told me that he loved watching me work a room now. That he could really see myself confidence coming back and coming out!    I don’t have a lot of friends who have gone through WLS so I didn’t hear many stories beforehand, but I couldn’t be happier with my decision. And even though my fiancé didn’t believe that I needed the surgery beforehand…I know he’s happy that I did it .