Sellin' bootleg out yo car don't make him no bi'ness owner

MSW will not settle
on 5/28/09 1:57 am
Please indulge me as I vent. 

Major dramatics yesterday.   How does an intelligent (high IQ individual), hard working, beautiful  young woman with three small kids and a husband away on sabatical (okay, he's in jail), end up with a beautiful infant and eviction papers?

Turns out the 'business man' she fell in with when her DH went off on his 'mandatory personal journey' sells DVD's out of the back of her car.   I call that a hustle not a business. 

He had nine month to prepare for his child's birth, but now that baby momma is on maternity leave waiting for her disability check, baby daddy who did not see fit to get a damn job can't pay the rent because she always paid it.  Did I mention that DH never worked in about ten years of marriage?  Hmmm, do I detect a pattern here?

WHAT IS WRONG WITH SOME WOMEN???   What am I missing? 

How do you end up living with some guy you met at a club *****fuses to work.?  And no, he does not hustle because times are rough.  From what I hear, he's never troubled himself with work in all of his thirty something years. 

With a child comming, couldn't he work and do his DVD thing?  She did and she was pregnant. 

Thanks for letting me get this out of my system. 

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wonkad
on 5/28/09 2:05 am - IL
Some folks....

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donnieboy
on 5/28/09 2:20 am
"Selling bootleg out yo car don't make him no bizness owner"  ROFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Soul Flower
on 5/28/09 3:48 am, edited 5/28/09 3:48 am

Fortunately, mom to be will probably be able to get some sort of housing because of the baby. I just HOPE that she doesn't allow the business man to tag along. He can live out the trunk of his car amongst the DVD's. Grrrrr

MSW will not settle
on 5/28/09 4:24 am
He wishes he could live in the car.  Its her car he dosn't have one.  Couldn't even call him yesterday cause the negro is outta pre paid minutes.   

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mamapeaches05
on 5/28/09 3:55 am - Hot Springs, AR
Your topic "Sellin' bootleg out yo car don't make him no bi'ness owner " is too funny!  This is a very sad situation and a good example of being irresponsible. Giving birth is stressful enough now add in an eviction notice. I will pray for this young lady. I do hope she wakes up in time to smell the coffee.
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MSW will not settle
on 5/28/09 4:39 am
Thanks.  She needs prayer so badly.    

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PomMomTx
on 5/28/09 6:54 am, edited 5/28/09 6:55 am
Sadly, there is too much of this crap-for-a-lifestyle going on.  I know 3 women right now who have chosen the same kind of lazy, good-for-nothing loser who sits on the couch all day while the women work to pay for everything! 
All 3 "men" were/still are dodging child support from their previous messes!!!  I asked all three 'what makes you think he will take care of you & yours with a history of not working or supporting his kids before you?'.  One of these guys is 46 with no evidence of a work  history!!! That chick had his kiddo#5 & is left holding the bag; he's moved on to another woman who has 2 kids under 10 & he's positioned on yet another comfy couch all day screwing up their lives!

The women make every excuse for the worthless turd and explain what he says he's "going to do", cause ya know, he's ALWAYS 'fixin' to do something.  I say tell your electric company and your mortgage company about what he's "going to do" & see if they take that for payment!  Like what you have described,
usually they guy involves himself in some kind of "business" that either never happens, or fails right away, or gets him  arrested!

I never wanted companionship that bad myself, so I just cannot relate!  

The old women in my family use to say "The only thing a joker like that could tell me is which way the real man went" and "I wouldnt give him the time of day, let alone my phone number"!

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MSW will not settle
on 5/28/09 11:37 am
"The only thing a joker like that could tell me is which way the real man went"

LMAO 

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nikkemo
on 5/28/09 11:41 am - Orange, CA

WOW.....
@sabatical.  Is he the guest of the state or vacationing at Club Fed.

some women have to learn their lessons the hard way.  And it don't get no harder than eviction.

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