Since D brought it up yesterday.... LADIES - let's SPEAK on it......

I always expected for a man to know what I wanted without me telling him.  He needed a crystal ball to figure out what I wanted.  My husband is the only man who took the time to figure out what I was about. 

i'm like Valena...i like it all MY way. when younger, i would end up giving too much and getting less than in return (which is my fault for accepting). mostly tho, i am a bullheaded, spoiled princess...and when i get what i want, end up taking advantage. to that end, i have taken a relationship hiatus to work on me until i meet someone who is truly strong enough to deal with my strong personality-the same is true of my friendships...takes someone who is differentiated from the masses to vibe with Janeen.

Trust is big one for me.  I don't trust anyone or anything.  It takes me a long time to really trust someone and usually by the time it takes me to trust a guy, I have already moved on to the next one.  I have about a 3 month turnaround.  I'm working really hard not to do this in my current situation.

I'm unforgiving.  If you have survived long enough to be called my boyfriend and then you eff up.  I'll never ever give that trust again.  I will remember it and everything you ever said to me and it just goes downhill from there.
I remember small details that add up to the big picture.  I'm always catching someone in a bold face lie.  Once I do this, I start to doubt your fidelity, loyality and everything.

I'm guarded.  When I love, I love hard.  I just don't fall in love very easily or willingly.  Usually it sneaks up on me, surprises me and knocks me over the head.  At that point, I love you until you do something that makes me stop loving you.  Once I stop loving you, it's permanent and irreversable. 
I'm jealous and I don't like to share anything yet alone a man. 

But on the flip side, if you can break through all those minor issues, I'm yours for life.  I'm very faithful, I'm loyal and will have your back to the end of days.