So Fellas...

lets keep it real....would you approach a dude that is looking busted and mean as hell. looking like if you say the wrong thing he gone choke that cherry back up that you just ate out of your drink. To be honest men and women could be missing out on a good thang because both sit back and check things out before they approach. You know good and well yall go through a checklist  (a scroll) before yall approach.

Busted, no, but mean yes, and actually that would probably be my "in"  I'm pretty talkative, I'll sit and kick it with anyone, if he tries to holla and I'm not feelin it there's always a tactful way out.  I don't clown or disrespect anyone and I don't hang out with classless chicks.  Again, ya'll perceive a scroll.  I'm really trying to tell you it aint so.  (as a rule)  Some do, some don't but would you even want to be bothered with the ones who do?  No, right?  So screw them broads.  Bottom line, don't assume, cause ya never know and if you do assume, own that, don't project your reason for assuming on her..

I have never been that type of woman...with the head rolling, sucking teeth thang-a-ma-jig.  I believe in treating people with respect (as long as they do the same)...and will talk to a brother very cordially...and if he is not living up to respecting a woman, then I cordially tell him to BEAT IT!

I won't embarrass a guy...I leave that up to him to embarrass himself and take himself out of the equation - why?  Because he does it so much better...besides, it takes the onus off of me.

'nuf said!

DD

Good question I have had this type of conversation with the fellas it seems a lot of woman don't want nice guys we see a lot of men taking care of business and getting walked on. Also see good women stay with men that dog them out. Another problem a lot of men have been raised by women which means a lot of men have to learn about women on there own and are doing what they see around them, a man that had a good father in his life will be different that one that didn't. I was raised by a single mother and I had to learn for myself that what my friends liked was not what I like. I won’t be miserable just to be in a relationship we all have our likes and dislikes so I don’t go after women with things I dislike, because I have to be true to myself.

Uh, holla atcha girl regarding "the fellas" any single and "nice"? 

The men taking care of business and getting walked on are fools.  Why not leave?  It's a double standard.  If a woman is being abused or mistreated in any way it's leave him, he aint right, but when it's the other way around, it's just she aint right.  Why doesn't he bounce? 

Uh, holla atcha girl regarding "the fellas" any single and "nice"? 

There's a lot.


The men taking care of business and getting walked on are fools.  Why not leave?  It's a double standard.  If a woman is being abused or mistreated in any way it's leave him, he aint right, but when it's the other way around, it's just she aint right.  Why doesn't he bounce? 

Neither will leave till things go to far and it is a double standard.

1.I want a "good" women . That is to say respectful of me, Smart and attractive.
2. It is hard approaching anybody, No one wants to be rejected. Man or women.
Women friends do play a role. They can make life hard on a man.
Men and women both give  people that they are more physically atrractted  more slack.  If that were not the case with women Drug dealers and inmates would not be farthering so many of our children. So maybe women need to grow up a little more. A women has to get more credit if she gives good head. Just my opinoin

Wow.  That's kinda unflattering, bro.  But, it IS ur opinion.

Juxt kidding about the head(