Daytime TV is making me stupid

So I watch a lot of topical television and I think I'm getting too wrapped up in other peoples ignorance.  Just want to open up a few topics and see what ya'll think...

Abortion
As you know it's been quite a hot topic lately and yesterday the hens on The View were discussing it and basically everyone except Whoopi and Joy contradicted themselves.  (read the 2 dumb chicks) Somehow abortion is wrong and every life is precious, HOWEVER some people have no right to have kids, ie the 66 year old pregnant woman, octomom etc.  I don't understand that.  Seems a bit hypocritical to me. 

My question(s) If you're pro life, why exactly?  And how (if you so believe) do you turn around and try to dictate who can and should have babies if they find themselves pregnant whether it be naturally or through invitro?  If you're pro choice, why exactly?  If you don't quite know, why exactly?

Married Virgins
These broads are on Tyra right now talking about the fear and anxiety of dyck.  One couple has been married 2 years and haven't screwed YET!  The chick is crying and the dude is like oh it's cool.  Another couple has had a 7 year sexless marriage and the chick is talking about how she has to use pillows to muffle her screams every time he tries to hit.  They've had sex 1 time.  Personally (and call me ignorant) I don't see how the hell you can do it at least once but not be able to ever do it again.  I think at least some of them are closeted gays and the others are getting some strange on the side.   Your thoughts? 

Questions to the fellas...would you marry a virgin?  What would you do if you found out after the vows that she had this "condition"

How patient would you be with any woman who had any type of sexual hangups?

I agree with you on the daytime tv thing.  While I was recouping from WLS I found myself watching way too many Judge Whatever - who da daddy shows.  By the time you realize you've lost a couple of IQ points you kinda wanna know who da daddy  is- did she really sleep with his cousin/ best friend...did he lie on her...

As for Abortion... in my opinion arguing abortion is like arguing religion.  I don't do it cause I find its all heat and no light...people get upset  that somebody else can "think that way" and rarely do they change their minds...and nobody learns anything because our minds don't tend to be open on the subject - for most folks on stuff like this its - believe like I do or be wrong.....all I can say is I wouldn't have one and that at this point in my life and cir****tances its not likely to come up as an issue.

Peace,
Rhonda

Ummm - you need a lib-berry card.......

As for the married virgin thing - bet you neither one of those mofos was black, right?

Cause niccas don't care if you DO scream.......

got one smartass and was just there 2 weeks ago.

the 7 year couple chick had some kind of color in her everyone else was white.

Two weeks ago?  you DO know that they let you go more than one time a month, right?

BBWWWAAAHHHAAAAA - whew!  I so crack ME up!!!!

and hell to the naw I wouldn't be with a mofo that couldn't put it down..... lemme ask this - ok, he can't stick it in there - but did her mouth hurt with that pillow in it? 

don't trip.  I'm just sayin.......

****I don't see how the hell you can do it at least once but not be able to ever do it again.  I think at least some of them are closeted gays and the others are getting some strange on the side****

lol QT

I saw that Tyra show and that is exactly what I was thinking ....

she probably got ole boy payin bills but getting with somebody else. 

And I would get a DNA test for the baby for real. Might be a real medical

disorder but I don't believe the girl married 7 years with 1 child has it.

On the abortion issue seems like all sides are hypocritical IRL both sides too extreme

I have heard Joy critizcize the OCTO mom but you know comedy don't suppose to count

Girl, get out of my head!  I was like this chick is a great actress! 

I am 50/50, if possible, on abortion... I am pro life for religions reasons but you can ask for forgivness if need be... I am pro choice because to each its own... Never had an abortion and hope to NEVER... I just hate when people use abortion as a form of birth control... I have had friends and family tell me they were pregnant and then they get an abortion and then come to me like 1 month later like I think I am pregnant again...That is some dumb ****

I'm with you on that.  I sat in the office with a broad who lied about the number of abortions she'd had on the forms because "they don't need to know my business" I believe at that point she'd had like 4 abortions.  She currently has 4 live children (2 + twins) so she's been pregnant a number of times.  I'm all for choice and such, but that's the type of ignorance I have an issue with.

QT,  I know usually we kinda ignore each other, but I read your posting and it kinda interested me.

Abortion

To me, the entire topic is just one of those that will probably never go away, for neither side is going to budge on their position.  My question however is this: since we, as men, will never ever go thru an actual abortion, why are so many of us so vocal about it?  I mean, don't get me wrong, if I'm with a woman, she gets impregnated, and is considering options,  I can offer an opinon, but ultimately the choice is her's and she will either consider my opinon, or not.   The View, like many other programs, it seems, contributes (on those very few times I even tried to watch) to the "dumbing down of America".  The two women you mentioned seem to be the only hostesses who actually HAVE a head on their shoulders and can give intelligent, thought provoking responses.

 

Married Virgins.

All I can say is "What????"  I'm kidding.  I don't know if I would marry a virgin.  On the one hand, yes, its definitely a "teaching" situation for those of us who are willing and / or able to teach.  On the other hand, as with the situation you mention, you actually may run the risk of running into someone with a "condition".. I can't see that happening very often, though.   In terms of sexual hangups, I will share this: I was in a marriage in which physical intimacy happened on average once a month from the time our daughter was born (5/16/94) to the time of our seperation (02/2004), by her choice.  While I voiced my dissatisfaction, she seemed perfectly happy with the situation.   Long story short, I ended up cheating on her and we eventually divorced.  Not specifically because of the lack of intimacy, but a few other issues as well.   So, while I don't know if I would marry a virgin, I am quite sure I would not deal with sexual hangups.