Please tell me why?

Hey BAF

I haven't posted in a while...been busy getting used to my life post-op! Anywho I have a quick question for you guys maybe someone can shed some light on this for me...

I am in the bathroom...its EMPTY...someone comes in and takes the stall next to me and proceeds to take a monster shyt...WTF...why couldn't she have taken that too the last stall or better yet saved it for home? I dont understand when there are 7 stalls in the bathroom why you have to use the one next to me...Its like the empty bus or train and then someone comes and sits right next to you....WHY???

I've often wondered that kinda stuff myself and I still don't know the answer or have a clue as to what it is.

It's the same type of thing when you're in a department store shopping.  You could be down an aisle all by yourself, nobody around you for miles, and then all of a sudden that family of 7 wants to squeeze in past you instead of taking their small gang around one aisle over to get where they want to go in the store. 

Happens to me everytime.

 Maybe they didnt see your twinkle toes in the stall next door cause  they literally had **** on their mind 


People do the darn-dest things  

Hey hun,

How are you? I didnt even know that was you...I hope all is well!

Im fine girly........just trying to get comfortable in this process.

I saw your new pic briefly and I really liked it..........girl you got that cool urban thing going on.

Adorable !

Blessings !

Ever since having WLS, when I have to take a poop, I have to do it NOW.  There ain't no holding it till later.  LOL

I do take others into consideration when at work, and I go to MY restroom downstairs and waaaaay off in a secluded area of the building.  Cause I KNOW they are deadly!

You right on the money with that one.  They sure will get right beside you.  It's just like when I drive.  I HATE getting to a 4 way stop sign intersection at the same time as someone else does because you have to make eye contact.  You have to figure out whose going first and then wave at them to go and then they wave back at you to go.  Then you start to go and then their dumb @$$ starts to go too.  And there goes a near accident right in the middle of the friggin intersection.  And you both leave the scene with raised blood pressures and mad as hell.  The thing about it is that of all the seconds in a day, why does someone have to get there at the exact second that I do???

But anyway, I feel ya!!

They probably wanted you to share the blame if a 3rd person walked it and smelled the funky stuff.

Im pretty much with the people who said that shyt must be the focus.  I feel so self conscience when I leave our bathroom.  We only have one for all staffspray has been an investment for me. 

i hear ya because whew lawd thats one of my pet peeves too--but mine is at the movie theater (before I pretty much stopped going)  whole theater damn near empty and the loud-mouth talkin' mofo's come sit RIGHT behind ME!  wtF is that about!!!??????  i hate that!!!