Vets, Newbies, In Betweenies......

(deactivated member)
on 4/30/09 11:38 pm - Detroit, MI
Hope everyone is having a beautiful day!

Just wanted to ask a question....

When did you know you were in love with your partner/husband/wife/girlfriend/boyfriend?

I ask this question because I was talking with some of my girlfriends about my boyfriend (I've been dating since the beginning of this year) and I was telling them about what was going on between us and one of my friends said that she and her guyfriend went to a bball game & he hand't shaved and she was embarassed. I told her that I didn't mind a little stubble every now and then and that my bf has the ashiest feet and I could care less. It doesn't bother me and doesn't turn me off at all. They all looked at me (in that this chile is crazy way) and laughed!

I asked what was so amusing and they all said Kerbi is in lubbbbbssss. I laughed it off and was like No, no yet and they're all like yes you are. You can't stand ashy people and for you to still sit next to him knowing he is ashy is remarkable!

I'm only 25 never been in love and I don't know what IT really is. After sitting back and thinking about it I'm like damn, am I really?.....in love....no couldn't be....I just met him and still barely know him....could it be?????.....

So tell me BAF when did you first know you were in ****LOVE**** ????


****OT****
To everyone that posted on my last post I'm sorry I didn't respond that was SO RUDE! I apologize! My damn computer froze at home and I can't get on BAF at work only on the main site....Sorry....trying to post responses now.....Luv you all!!!
MarloT
on 4/30/09 11:47 pm
VSG on 12/20/07 with
lol @ sitting next to ash.  yeah gurl they right!! 

earrrrrrly in our relationship, i had the stomach flu (i never get sick) little bit was in school.  it was his day off, he came over and i can't stand to be around anyone if i don't feel well.  antyhoo he comes over and i can't (don't wanna) even get outta bed.   warning: this'll sound more disgusting than romantic but heyl it was sweet to me.   every time i had to hurl, he'd gather my hair up off my neck and get it outta the way and all day long he kept the cool washcloths and hot soup comin.    my love language is acts of service so i was  from then on.
                                  be happy, laughter burns calories

 

(deactivated member)
on 4/30/09 11:57 pm
lol @ sitting next to ash.  yeah gurl they right!! 

Marlo T, you slay me sometimes, Homey!
(deactivated member)
on 5/1/09 12:13 am - Detroit, MI
Hey Marlo! Haven't met you yet so, HI! thanks for responding!

AWWWWWW  to kewt! and no it wasn't disgusting it was sweet! yeah if someone can be around me when i'm sick or fed up then he's a REAL trooper!
MIDDLE MAN
on 4/30/09 11:58 pm - GA
IF YOUR NOT IN LOVE YOUZ DAYUMMMMM SHO FALLING.

                                                     ATL STAND UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

                      SEIZE THE MOMENT!!  LIGHTS , CAMERA , ACTION
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(deactivated member)
on 5/1/09 12:16 am - Detroit, MI
lol, Hey Middle Man! Haven't talked u either, Hello!!!!

yeah, I think I am! I honestly don't mind it and if it doesn't work out it's a learning experience so I always see the positive out of it.
Ms. Praise
on 5/1/09 12:00 am - MD
Awww...how sweet...Kerbi's in lubbbbb!!!!

I think I knew I was in love when my BF had to work one day and it was his weekend to have his kids (2 girls).  Well...he asked if I could keep them for a few hours until their aunt got home and anybody that "know Cassie" know...I don't do children!!!  However, I stepped up, stepped in and kept them the entire day...and overnight and ENJOYED it.  Now...I had to step back and ask myself...WTF...I've never dealt with a man that had kids let alone keep them.  So...at that point I knew...I must love that man...he got me around kids and keeping them too.  OMG my family didn't let me live that one down for a while and you know what...it was all good.

Enjoy it baby girl...love is a beautiful thing.

Cassie
(deactivated member)
on 5/1/09 12:20 am - Detroit, MI
lol, yeah something like that.....


Cassie, believe me I feel u! I have a soon to be 7 yr old and sometimes I wanna trade her in, lol! (i'm kiddin BAF, please don't turn me in to CPS!) I think that may have been a test for you though. He probably wanted to see how you would react and because it was a positive one I think he stored that one and is looking at you in a different light now.

*sigh* I know, it is and I will....
Ms. Praise
on 5/1/09 12:23 am - MD
Kerbi...it may have been a test for him...but that's when I KNEW...I LOVED THIS MAN...because kids...naw...miss me wit dat...but my heart has softened and its all good.
(deactivated member)
on 5/1/09 12:26 am - Detroit, MI

LMAO! you silly! Congrats though! I just love seeing Black love!

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