Self Image vs Self Esteem

Dalexis
on 4/30/09 6:04 am - Brooklyn, NY
On April 30, 2009 at 12:53 PM Pacific Time, MrBaker870 wrote:
boy you stupid.....

and look at you....

still apologizing....lil bytch....

Even when you trying to be "gangsta" you still apolgizing.....

YOu's a bytch and I make no apology for calling you one and best believe bruh if I TRULLY wanted to touch you...June 26th would be to far off....

50 y/o man making cyber threats....come on man...be for real 

Dude,  I"m waiting paitently for your next heart attack.  I make no apology for that. 

"When Alexander saw the breadth of his domain, he wept for there were no more worlds to conquer."   Plutach.  Not true, for there are always more worlds to conquer.

www.myspace.com/dalexis863

Just Valena
on 4/30/09 6:08 am - Nunyabizness
Nate you are the one that brought the *****assness to this whole thread coming at D with the 50 y/o ho and whatever else crap you were talking. Seriously.
(deactivated member)
on 4/30/09 8:46 am

I gives **** wishing a heart attack on a mofo is some ****** up shiot!

I don't care how mad I get at someone I would NEVER wish such a thing on them...and we all know I can say some ****** up shiot...lol

I'm saying Lena....age 50 vs heart attack...sorry babe not warranted at all

Just Valena
on 5/1/09 2:37 am - Nunyabizness
Ro, what do the old folx say...don't start none, won't be none! Uncalled for...maybe. But the shiggidy should have never started to begin with. If ya can't run wit da big DAWGS...
Dedee
on 5/1/09 11:28 am - Home Is Where, The HEART is, Midwest
RoRo...are you showing your soft side???

I have NEVER wished a heart attack on anyway....
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unless that is the same as wishing they get hit by a Mack Truck and ate by buzzards


Missing you, Babe

I focus not on my disabilty; my focus is on my ABILITIES.  
(Dedee, 2009)              
                                            

My hearing impairment ENABLES me, not disables me.
(Dedee, 2008)


       ~Dedee   

ValueMe
on 5/1/09 12:33 am
Mr. Baker:

I'm not understanding exactly what you are saying in calling D a Bytch. Now I know that one does not have to be a female to be a bytch, now-a-days it can mean 3 things. (1) The whole female thingy about certain females;       (2) When a male is acting like a Punk/Cowardly/No Guts/No Snap...;(3) When a male has some female qualities, like a "queen", Queer, ******

Now I ask for your clarity because D's retort was extremely harsh and actually extreme, considering what you said. D's diatribe (this IS the proper use of the word) indicates to me that you hit a major artery of which #2 above would not generate from a secure man. So if you could elucidate on your statement "lil bytch..." I'm just trying to understand why this seemingly mature, kind, secure, intelligent man would wish your death (GOD Forbid, because you are a young Brother who I believe has a lot to offer the world, with your education, story of overcoming, mentorship...) I can understand a cussing out or even a beat down, but death?!

 

 

Be Well, Live Well
I Am Most Excellent - Affirmed Only Of GOD.
I wish for You, what I pray for Myself: Wellness, Happiness and Success In ALL Things Good! 
I know for Sure I Control: My Attitude and Effort, My Health and Happiness.

 

 

Dedee
on 5/1/09 11:21 am, edited 5/1/09 11:22 am - Home Is Where, The HEART is, Midwest
Question---what's wrong with being a ***** ~just asking~

Women who have screwed more than 3 men are *****s...if she uses more than 3 flacks of tissue, she is a DOUBLE *****a man who asks you a question or challenge you is a *****

Damn Nate this is just too much for me to keep up with ~SMDH~

Now, I too agree with that question. Self-esteem and self-confidence can be faked.

People who act like they are the **** are normally insecure with self.

Self-image?!  I do not like my body....but I love it....I don't need anyone to tell me I'm sexy...pretty, fine...none of that....I have  mirror and a mouf...I tell myself those things!

Men who think "I can have her....she wants me....or everything that moves wants him are normally insecure and have low self-esteem!

Women (some not all--same for the men)...who dress shady and needs or requires attention normally has poor self-esteem and no love of self.

It's about accepting your WHO....see, I define me and my WHO...no one else has that power.  I can have on sweats, a tee, a head scarf and flip flops and I'm sitll comfy with my who....I don't need makeup, my designer jeans and shoes nor my 300 dollar weaves to be the "****t".....those things don't define my person...I define my person.

ETA: and a Southern Belle---a true Southern Belle, I'm surprised at your response to D--it was unwarranted....we Southern people have more cybertality than that ~bwahahhahaa~ ---okay, okay, I had to kick in a joke; GEESH ~roll eyes~---

I focus not on my disabilty; my focus is on my ABILITIES.  
(Dedee, 2009)              
                                            

My hearing impairment ENABLES me, not disables me.
(Dedee, 2008)


       ~Dedee   

sunsheyen
on 4/30/09 5:31 am
LMAO @ chose the low road! Too funny!

Funny how mofos don't feel the breeze every time that skirt lifts and they show their ENTIRE *****!
Just Valena
on 4/30/09 6:14 am - Nunyabizness
Janeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeen!!!!!
sunsheyen
on 4/30/09 6:34 am
Whiter Shade of Pale....I mean Lena!!!

Hey chica! I already weighed in on the *****ass debate the other day...when hems were grabbed and skirts were lifted, there was no more question in my mind! *s******
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