Self Image vs Self Esteem
I just reiterate what these people say about THEMSELVES; they call themselves crazy, low self esteem, problem people, all types of names...what they want from Me. Ain't NONE of that **** cool, peeps come on the INTERNET and spill their guts about their Fragmented and Dysfunctional Lives and expect someone to hold them high for that. Writing the negatives about themselves is just affirming what they have called themselves. I ain't putting NOBODY on a pedestal for spilling their guts about private matters, and when I or someone else comments on it they have the nerve to say "foul". I say if they do not want people to comment on what they write, dont tell all of that crazy, dysfunction stuff and call it "being real". That ain't real, that's crazy! And that is for anyone who decides to wear the shoe, cause the shoe does not fit everyone.
That's why there is so much "back-line bull****" because people are confiding in indiscrete, immature, nuts...if they can't be discrete about their OWN Lives, they sure are not going to be discrete about anyone else's life. When a mug tells you they are crazy or dysfunctional or problem-laiden, BELIEVE THEM...who knows them better than THEY DO!
Be Well, Live Well
I Am Most Excellent - Affirmed Only Of GOD.
I wish for You, what I pray for Myself: Wellness, Happiness and Success In ALL Things Good!
I know for Sure I Control: My Attitude and Effort, My Health and Happiness.
I focus not on my disabilty; my focus is on my ABILITIES.
(Dedee, 2009)
My hearing impairment ENABLES me, not disables me.
(Dedee, 2008)
~Dedee
So when "certain" people on this Board "speak" what's on their minds, even if it offends someone, it's OK for them to do it cause they are "keeping it real" or SOMEHOW they have EARNED the priviledge to "offend". But if I say what's on my mind, somehow I am negative or offensive. Who made YOU or anyone else the Board Police. You'd be surprised to know that some of those peeps you TRY to defend send me emails...heck even invitations to be Friends. Maybe they appreciate a different point of view or maybe they feel they need tough Love now and then, and RESPECT someone who can think fairly and tell them straight up! Mushie and syrup is not for everyone, ALL THE TIME! I have NEVER seen anyone succeed at anything that is worth-while that didn't have to do it hard. There IS a time for everything under the Sun.
If you and others would stop being so bitter or stop being player haters then you might see a different part of those that do not agree with everything you believe. LIFE would be better, you might even start seeing white people as regular folks or summin. Bitterness will kill the soul and Spirit.
Be Well, Live Well
I Am Most Excellent - Affirmed Only Of GOD.
I wish for You, what I pray for Myself: Wellness, Happiness and Success In ALL Things Good!
I know for Sure I Control: My Attitude and Effort, My Health and Happiness.
Are you callin me crazy for my previous response?Since I was the first 'soul barer' on here and have called myself crazy in the past - I'm a lil curious.
I don't just have issues, I have subscriptions! I'm saving on the newsstand price....... 
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It's just not worth me showing my rear on the net tosomeone that really doesn't matter once I hit Control-Alt-Delete, doesn't write my checks, and has no bearing on how I live my life.
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I wasn't really looking for an answer for conversation per se - I'm a lil hormonal - nobody IRL has crossed me and I was kinda looking to start a fight..... 
Sorry - I'm bored. guess I will go find some WORK to do........ *putting up BAF church fanga*
Excuse me yall.......
I don't just have issues, I have subscriptions! I'm saving on the newsstand price.......
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