OT- This womb for rent

@ Yes, I AM in favor of adoption and long as I can find a kid that was as cute as I was as a baby


 Now just where are you gonna find a pair of diapers for a babygirl these days with that much "junk in their trunk" at such an early age, Daaaawwwwgggg?

I've got a little background on SJP fertility issues.  It took years and years of IVF for her to conceive that one biological child she has with her husband.  Last I heard she spent around 400K to get pregnant.  Now that she's in her 40's it would take a miracle for her to get pregnant again.  IVF is no joke and is really hard on your body.  I did one round of IVF and was ready to start a 2nd cycle when I said forget it... let's take this money and adopt and that's what we did.
No one can guess that I didn't give birth to those big headed spoiled children. 

Now here's the thing with infertility treatments and surrogates... for some people it's very important to have a biological connection.  My husband already had a biological child and biology wasn't important to me. 

Would I use a surrogate?  If money was no object...  I might under the right conditions.  Since I don't have that kind of money... It's not an option for me. 

But would you spank them like they were your biological child if they stepped outta line?

How you doing Double Triple Double Double on Humpday? To answer your question.





1.  Do you view having children through a surrogate the same as having children via the "Va Jay-Jay" (as Oprah calls it)? Why or why not? No I do not.I would consider that child as mine.It does not matter who carried the child.

2.  Would you have a surrogate have your baby for you? Why or Why not? Yes I would consider a surrogate because actually after watching how my sister carried her son and the birth the thought actually scares me.She had a rough pregnancy with an emergency C-section which I seen every bit of her stomach split into.She had a terrible experience and plus my nephew as well as myself has inherited an illness through my father that is incurable and for those reasons alone I will not  carry a child myself and pass this gene onto the child.

3. Brothas (specifically), would you push to adopt a child(ren) if your SO couldn't conceive or carry a baby to full term and deliver? Why or why not?


As far as the Sarah and  Matthew I ain't gonna even speak on that one. LOL!

P.S. I am a proud Baf-ette lurker

 @ Double Triple Double Double...

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