OT: Sex in the City vs. Fuggin in da Hood
I was bored the other day and I watched that Sex in the City movie on HBO and the whole time I was watching it, it just felt like a movie to me - ya know, nothing really bad ever happens to the people in it, no one wears a scar from a previous fight or incident - a real chick flick. Shees.
But what really stuck out to me is that these women in the movie didn't want to be defined by their sex lives or rather have their lives be defined for them but yet sprinkled in with some sex here and there. That's a good look right there.
My questions to you, BAF, is:
1. How come when sistas go at it like these chicks it's considered Whorish By Nature?
2. What could brothas do to have a Sex in the City type of lifestyle that don't end up in keyed cars, hang up phone calls at 3am, and ex-girlfriends popping by on a Friday/Saturday night to not holla but "yell at them" for being dumped?
3. Where in the world do we find 4 sistas who can stay good friends for the entire length of a two hour movie let alone more than 2 or three years?
4. How come none of the women in the movie ever ended up with a baby-daddy situation?
Hold on! I'll BE RIGHT THERE!!!!!!
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REALLY Ma-Hog-anyDreams?!... I thought it was a Chitlin Supreme Sub from Quiznos. I know it was a movie, I was talking about the "keepin' it real" factor within the movie. Now follow the arrows: ---> ---> ---->
-----> DUH!

on 4/28/09 8:26 pm, edited 4/28/09 8:53 pm - Sweet Dreams lives in , PA

I love this question!!!!
1 - Chicks who get down like this are considered this by folk who aren't open enough to acknowledge the lifestyle - NOTE - it's always SAFE sex in the city, by the way......
2- Bruhs need to stop lying and making chicks THINK they are more than just the bump. I have told MANY a nicca that - you bruhs get a lil heated when you realize it ain't nothing but the moment - I have been fronted out a couple times......
3 - I don't know where you find them hoes - I personally don't roll with other biotches - even the friends i got NOW got a problem with my 'logic' and approach
4 - did you miss that MIRANDA had a baby for Steve and that's how they got hitched? Watch the series and not just the movie at the end cuz..... Steve is her baby daddy - he just married her. now THAT'S something BROTHAS rarely do.......
I don't just have issues, I have subscriptions! I'm saving on the newsstand price.......
Check out my dating mis - adventures at: http://1macdatinggame.blogspot.com/
1 - Chicks who get down like this are considered this by folk who aren't open enough to acknowledge the lifestyle - NOTE - it's always SAFE sex in the city, by the way......
True. None of those *****es caught the crabs or had a guy running up on them in a crowded mall talking about how his thing-thing keeps shootin out razor blades since they slept with her.
2- Bruhs need to stop lying and making chicks THINK they are more than just the bump.
Please. Like a sista is just gonna blame it on the a-a-a-al-al-alcohol all the time.
I have told MANY a nicca that - you bruhs get a lil heated when you realize it ain't nothing but the moment - I have been fronted out a couple times......
Yeah but a sista ain't gonna bang a bruh if he says, "This is just a fugg now. We ain't a couple..."
3 - I don't know where you find them hoes - I personally don't roll with other biotches - even the friends i got NOW got a problem with my 'logic' and approach
See. You feel me on that one right? I rest my case on this one...
4 - did you miss that MIRANDA had a baby for Steve and that's how they got hitched? Watch the series and not just the movie at the end cuz..... Steve is her baby daddy - he just married her. now THAT'S something BROTHAS rarely do.......
Yeah but Miranda wanted to be a baby-mama. Now that's something that a sista will rarely do.