Sexting? Turn on or Turn off?

Hello baf,

I have a question today.  Do you ever sext?  If so, does the recipient of your sext like it?

The reason I am asking is because I sent my husband of many years a sext message yesterday with a picture of my “girls" and a picture of my “cookie", telling him how I was looking forward to Saturday night and how I wanted him to suck my “girls".  Well, when I asked him if he received my text, his reply was, yea I got that silly ish.  And why did you send me those pictures, do you want to go to jail? I have already deleted it.........

 Now I know that sexting is illegal for minors and all, but we are fully grown, married adults.  WTF?

I told him later that day that his response hurt my feelings and that I expected him to respond differently.  His answer to that was that I was so childish and needed to grow up.

Okay y’all, is my marriage in trouble.  Is this man not interested in me anymore or is sexting just not for him?  He is the best in ever other way.

I was kinda mad because I remember back in the day when he used to have ******** with a girlfriend of his who lived in another city.  And he seemed to like that.  What’s the biggie here?

Maybe it is me???????

What say you?

Hiya - haven't seen you around here so I'll start off by letting you know I am blunt.

As for MY opinion - in THIS day and age - I can certainly understand a bruh not wanting to have miscellaneous titties saved in his phone - that **** could get a nicca kilt if found by the wrong cop on the wrong day.  With all the ***** issues - not a good look

Now - as far as him not being into it - everybody is different - that kinda change up is some **** you should talk about before you do it - so he knows where you are coming from.  And why question him not wanting to do some fantasy thing that he used to do with a chick he ain't marry?  He kept homegirl on the phone but you in is HANDS obviously.......

I think yall should talk before any new **** - I never do new **** without a 'warning shot' over the bow. 

Thanks MM,
That makes sense...... I guess I shoulda warned him first and found out what he would think....
I like your bluntness!  Give it to me straight.  That's why I asked.

How long have you been married?  Have you guys ever tried any kinky stuff at home?  Have you guys ever talked about sexting?  How old are you and your husband?

We have been married for12 years and yes, we have tried a few things.  but I am shy but want to come out...... We have not talked about sexting but he had shared his dislike about receiving a porn picture from a friend but I thought is was becasue of who had sent it.  Guess not........  He is 40......

Yeah, it seems he may not like receiving that kind of stuff on his phone especially in public.  Have you had weight loss surgery? 

yes, I had the sleeve about 8 months ago but everything is still in place so far....
I have lost about 55 pounds and still have about 45 to go.  my "girls' are still okay just a little sagg, not too much.  And the other is the exact same.  No changes there.

when I am in the bedroom on my laptop and Becca is in the living room on hers,  I sometimes will send her a pic of my bootie or boobs on the webcam.   Is that sexting ?

That would be sexting!  Does she like it?

nevermind   lol