OT: Overcoming Horrible First Date
Hey Brenda:
If your friend's self-esteem is good and she was not just having a bad day when she went out with the guy, then she should evaluate her feelings. Just because someone has all of the "OUTWARD" accompaniments does NOT mean they are right for you. Many times our Spirit will react to things we do not see with the physical eye. People who have learned to trust themselves accept those feelings and use those as a "red flag" signaling danger...like if you go in a building or walk down a street and the hairs on your neck stand-up...when that happens to me I start double checking doors, looking for weapons for protection, praying...
Tell her to examine herself and relive the evening, go deeper than just what He LET her see. It is sure not necessary for her to "run" after a man if she has it together...remember, Predators can SMELL weak, low self-esteem women. She might want to start with asking around as to why this "Great Catch" is not married or with a woman; if he had a woman, what happened that this "Great Catch" was thrown BACK in the sea. Saying: Everything that Glitters ain't necessarily Gold!
If your friend's self-esteem is good and she was not just having a bad day when she went out with the guy, then she should evaluate her feelings. Just because someone has all of the "OUTWARD" accompaniments does NOT mean they are right for you. Many times our Spirit will react to things we do not see with the physical eye. People who have learned to trust themselves accept those feelings and use those as a "red flag" signaling danger...like if you go in a building or walk down a street and the hairs on your neck stand-up...when that happens to me I start double checking doors, looking for weapons for protection, praying...
Tell her to examine herself and relive the evening, go deeper than just what He LET her see. It is sure not necessary for her to "run" after a man if she has it together...remember, Predators can SMELL weak, low self-esteem women. She might want to start with asking around as to why this "Great Catch" is not married or with a woman; if he had a woman, what happened that this "Great Catch" was thrown BACK in the sea. Saying: Everything that Glitters ain't necessarily Gold!
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