OT- Attention those with natural hair I need your help

I have tried EVERYTHING on my hair I also don't use a lot of black products at first I use Garnier curl shapers I use the detangling shampoo of Just for me and I also use ms jessie I use the curly pudding more than the butter cream. To me if you have a corser hair with less define curl the butter cream works but if your hair has more of a curl pattern the curly pudding works better and then i use the butter cream in between my washes and that is what I used for my birthday pic on my page and also my profile pic (I think)

My favorites

Curl Defining:
Elasta qp feels like silk
Donna Marie Coco Curly Butter
Fantasia IC gel
Miss Jessie's

For moisture:
SheaMoisture
Fructis Garnier SleekShine LeaveIn
Organics Olive Oil Moisturizer