The best Non WLS advice I ever got.......

My momma used to be a firm believer of:

~Nothing beats a failure but a try!
~The best helping hand in life is at the bottom of "your own" wrist.
~Love conquers all!

Excuse are like buttholes everyone has one.

Never look a gifthorse in the mouth

It is OK to love people and leave them alone

You can forgive a person and not be bothered with them if they do not change. 

It can and probably will happen to you problems do not discriminate just be prepared. 

WHEW!!!  preach sista on that


It is OK to love people and LEAVE THEM ALONE!!!!!!

Chile if that ain't the truth - i don't know WHAT is!!!!! 

You teach people how to treat you,   you let them treat you like **** and they will. 

LESSON LEARNED.

Men are like floor tile.... if you lay them right the first time you can walk all over them for the rest of your life! LMAO JUST PLAYING!!!

but seriously my mom always said treat others how you want to be treated. even when they don't reciprocate you will be blessed in the end.

  You wrong for that first one!

Treat people the same way you want to be treated.


Some people can only be loved from a distance.


No two people are ever going to agree 100% on everything....just knowing that little fact you are halfway to compromising......compromise = harmony

The best way to get over some old dick is to get up under some new...

just kidding!!

Seriously, 2 of the best for me...
You can't fix stupid.

and No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.

**** 'em

A male friend told me this when I was complaining about the Skinni Minnies (the now ex-friends who are all size 6 and under - I was STILL the biggest when we pledge A Phi Q as a size 10/12, but a sista was stacked!):

Never make someone a priority when you're only an option to them.

That ish was so true... it was friendship out of habit... I can't wait for dem hoebags to see me after!

Moms told me

1. Not everyone is your friend
2. A moment on the lips, forever on the hips (I thought she was lying - no way in HELL I was EVER gonna get fat.  Ladies and gentleman - Exhibit one - fat Brandy!!!)
3. When a bytch tells you she's jealous of you, you BEST to believe her!
4. If you can't love yourself, how the f*** do you expect someone else to?
5. Get your MBA, f*** a MRS (wish I'd had listened as a 18yr old - would've been more about school... but I now have 2 masters degrees)
6. Remember that you are ALWAYS loved (by God and by your family).
7. You may be lonely, but you are NEVER alone. Even when you don't feel Him, God is with you ALWAYS.
8. If you pray, don't worry.  If you worry, don't pray.  Give it completely up to God.

Some of dad's, I just can't clean up or even remember... if I did, I'd probably start crying (RIP, daddy!!)