Piggyback on D'Alexis..... Assumptions, Inferences and Impressions......

How bout some people just don't mesh and it really doesn't matter if they were initially introduced online or IRL?

Oh no doubt!  All folk ain't meant to mesh!  LOL

some folk avoid or dismiss those they don't vibe with - but some go on the offensive with thier conclusions - I'm wondering why that self righteousness is - that folk resume to be judge and jury.

What is it that they say? "You only have one chance to make a first impression"  Whether it be in the cyber world or in person.  Folks can only form opinions based on the information provided. If you are someone who talks ****y, breaks others down or brags a lot to anyone who will listen...but in private feeds the homeless and does other great deeds... it's the ass that will be remembered.  Relating to the cyber world...I believe the biggest issue  is that folks get so amped up just to have something to say to fit in that they don't stop to think about WHAT they are saying sometimes or how it might be taken by others. Additionally some folks suffer such low self-esteem that they have been isolated so finding a forum to post on is like a lottery win...they just get caught up similar to being in high school again.  I think in many cases that person might be an ok person BUT...just goes about fitting in the wrong way.

I am one who is known online to be quite evil but those who know me well...know how my mind ticks....Oh don't get me wrong those who know me well don't know some secret Dani who is like Mary Poppins...they just know know I'm me.

Hmm - interesting - so the person really isn't TRULY an azz - just a misfit?  I can dig it.

100% no...I  truly think it's like you said a case of being more a misfit.  Don't get me wrong...some folks like myself are an azz but just not everyone.

I've never met you in person but I have been reading your post for almost 3 years and I have never gotton evil from you either... I just think when someone asks for your opinion they get it... lol.. (this is an open forum)...

Well thank you...that is actually how I see it but I also know that not everyone can take someone who is blunt even if they ask for an opinion. 

I think you can.  It's hard to keep fake and phony going.  Eventually, the real self comes out, all it takes is time and actually paying attention to what they are saying through their words. 

Alright...

I'm sure there are some really skewed opinions or views of me on here and to be honest i'd be lying if I said I didn't care. Of course we all want to be liked however, i'll never sacrifice something I believe for someone's opinion on me. If its how I feel and what I thin****il you show me different or why I shouldn't think that way. Then i'm riding for what I believe. Now we can come on here and BS all day and i'll be right in the middle of it. When the conversation or post becomes real then i'll respect it and let it be real. 2 things your not going to find me doing is that backline BS or apologizing for something I said.

If I said thats how I feel and i'm man enough to say how and why I feel that way about it.

I'm not apologizing be it wrong or right I did it and i'm going to ride it out. Thats not to say I can't aplogize for a wrong when its brought to my attention. EX. Like D, bruh will call me fat or whatever and then we people say something he'll apologize. I'll never do that. If I said something about you you'll know I said it to you and you'll know I meant it and I won't apologize for it later b/c it wouldn't be sincere especially when I know I feel that way.

<<---heart don't beat no kool-aid step and you'll get sprayed (GOOTTTAA LOVE THAT OUTKAST)
 
D, don't take it personal bruh just using u as an example...its all good homeboy.

I don't think that you're a bad person but you are one that doesn't seem to necessarily think about what you say all the time so your words  come out either insulting or just plan stupid from time to time.