BAF Brethren - I have a question......

Is this my BF on a fake ID?  you sound JUST like him!!!!!

dang dude - anything I could do to help him feel better?

No fake ID,, this is me. And I tell you the truth,, its a LOT more of us out here too. But most of them wont voice it, or just bottle the **** up.


Now here is more bad news,,,, aint SHYT you can do.

My **** started like September of 08-- and I aint over the **** yet.

My advice is just hang in there with him. Some brothers I know make DRASTIC changes in their lives--my life doesnt allow me to do any of that-- I got too many folks depending on me.

But dont be surprised if he hit you with something TOTALLY off the wall. And SOON too.



Que

  aww MAN!!!  are you SERIOUS????

He HAD been talking about doing a 'walkabout' - taking off for six months to 'discover' the world - I told him he could leave - but don't think IMMA be here when he get back....... he is staying his azz here!

Now you got ME trippin.......

Now Mack,

Ask yourself "How Que know THAT?"  and think about it for a minute.

Now,, if he HAD been thinking about doing a "walkabout"-- be real,, he STILL thinking bout doing a walkabout.

Nothing YOU say, gonna stop him either. So you can STOP threatening, cuz fa real, that dont matter. He got issues WAAY deeper than that mess you threatening. Down deep he thinking "I dont care if you aint here or not-- cuz I aint TRULY happy no way"

trust me, if he get TOO down,, he leaving anyways!!

Like I said, if I didnt have a family, I wouda BEEN gone. Even at the prospect of not knowing what(or who) I was gonna do.

thats how bad times are now.

Threats? Oh no sista,,, dont paint the man in a corner,,,,you may not like his decision.


dont trip.


Que

MAN - thanks for the real talk - for the rekkid - I ain't threatened in a long while.

I guess I just gotta see what happens - but that SUCKS!!!!!

Que I don't get that!

Men age so very nicely, better than females and they can always find some young chick that wants to shack up..lol

Not if they ass is BROKE!!!!!!!!!


RoRo,

My mother had 9 brothers,, 7 older, and 2 younger. I watched all but 2 of them, get old, and get STUPID. Young women, RUNNING thru their money!!!

It was a sad sight too--cuz it was so evident to everybody. Hell ,, it was really a trip, when they could each see it in each other, but could NEVER see it when it was THEM!!

Now although I have been out the game for years, I still see it going on. If you a old pimp-- you gots to have money. And I mean EXPENDABLE money,,, not all hung up in IRA's and pensions, and 401k's-- I mean CASH,, in yo pocket,,, ready for them to go thru.

And listen, Im no hata----if I was single, AND ole,,, I would WAD up my pockets, and become a trick too, for the rest of my days. Shyt down deep thats what I wanna do now!!! LOL

Like they say "Pimpin aint easy" and these old pimps,,, end up as the TRICK--most of the times.

Wait,,, you dont see them ole pimps on Judge Mathis? LOL

They be 68,, met some 31 yo chic--IN CHURCH--start cooking for him,, he mess up his money, and when he get broke,, he wanna sue for all the trips, dinners, and clothes he bought--you aint see that?

LOL



Que

Dang - you SHO right..... cause I would date a 50+ yr old brother in a MINUTE - for the right price..... LOL!!! 

I didn't trip at 40 MM...

But 30???  I thought my life was done.  So for some reason...I tripped at getting out of my 20's. 

50???  I'm looking forward to it!!!    (I'm seriously thinking about a big @$$ BAF party for my 50th)

You do that and I'm there!!