Mellow Monday Mindbender
on 4/13/09 4:06 am - Northern, CA
about a man? Why?Visuals does play a significant part, I like tall dark, muscular men...well groomed...sense of humor a must and definitely to be able to hold a conversation....knows when to be sensitive and strong at the same time.
Men of BAF, what has/does/would stimulate you intellectually
about a woman? Why?Would today's relationships
be better as a result of this switch? Why or why not?Ummm haven't really gave this question much thought but, i don't think by switching would make much of a difference as if there is a problem....it would still be there....hummm i need to ponder on this one..
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over 6 ft - $.35 cents
booty up on his back - $.65 cents
teeth that aren't fighting each other - $.80 cents
just as comfortable in brooks bros. as he is in timbs and has the God-given wisdom to know the difference - $.90 cents
overall: a well groomed field hand - priceless 
the physical isn't that serious (to me), i find that being treated well and being with someone i can laugh out loud with and/or talk about anything to makes him attractive
Expressive eyes means that you can someone by looking at their eyes. You can judge a man by how he looks at you on whether he is is feeling you or not. Sometimes men are not good with words in describing how they feel about you. But the right look will tell you everything. When you smile I want to see that smile reach your eyes. I can't stand seeing dead looking eyes. I can't read those kind of folks.
I have no problem with braces. I've had braces myself. Most people can have beautiful teeth for the right price. Cosmetic dentistry works wonders.
I think cliches like this just lumps everyone is a basket and they cause all kinds of havoc because some people actually believe them. Then you have people running around trying to be something they are not.....
With this in mind, I want to know from you would these sayings work in reverse?
Ladies of BAF, what has/does/would stimulate you visually
about a man? Why?As for what stimulates me visually. I go for the teeth first. Good oral hygiene is a definite plus for me. Then the face. A friendly face not one that is all scoured most of the time. I prefer nice beards or goatees... I like tall athletic to heavyset men.... Not into slim. Most of all...I love a man with a POSITIVE attitude....regardless of what his situation might be. And yes...you can see a positive attitude..On a positive thinker...its like a beam of light on his face. Should be this way most of the time...but we all have off days.
Would today's relationships
be better as a result of this switch? Why or why not?I agree with what someone said earlier. Its not going to matter if it were switched. There will always be deviations. Intelligence can be overrated. In my opinion, common sense is a more valuable commodity. Visuals can be deceiving....got a lot of very good looking men and woman out there that are rotten to the core. Average looking would suit me just fine as long as there was mutual respect and open communication.
