Question for the Brethren #2 - situation question
Since Cookie called on the brethren's input - I figured I would ask for input on this:
If you end up with a chick and yall get hitched - how would you approach 1 - where you live and 2 - where you go to church?
What if......
she had a house already and you didn't - would you be cool with moving into hers, or would you HAVE to get your 'own' spot?
she was a different denonimation than you - would you 'make' her attend with you?
(last one) what if you were already planning to find another church for yourself, but she loved hers - would you try to go to hers or just find one on your own?
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1, How I would approach where we lived depended on our job situations (am I in a situation where I can get a transfer within my company, if we wanted to move out of state or if i HAD to move out of state to be with her) or if I had a career that moved with me (such as my writing when it takes off).
2. Where we'd go to chuch (IF we went to church) would depend on a) religious denomination, b) comfort in the possible church of choice, c)choice of whether to convert (if need be) or not.
What if......
she had a house already and you didn't - would you be cool with moving into hers, or would you HAVE to get your 'own' spot?
3. Been there, done that. only it was an apartment. I will NEVER move into a woman's place after marriage, nor would I have her move in with me. The ideal situation, I think, would be to start off new in OUR place. Start fresh. I wouldn't move in because when I was married, I never felt it was "my" or "our" home. The furniture was mostly hers, the decor was hers, the whole nine. I always felt like I was a visitor; that I was living by her rules, not OUR rules.
she was a different denonimation than you - would you 'make' her attend with you?
4. You cannot "make" anyone do anything. To chose a different denomination is a huge choice because spirituality is a very personal thing to folks. Would I convert? Maybe..though I doubt it because i'm not big on "religiousity" anyway and am more into spirituality.
(last one) what if you were already planning to find another church for yourself, but she loved hers - would you try to go to hers or just find one on your own?
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1, How I would approach where we lived depended on our job situations (am I in a situation where I can get a transfer within my company, if we wanted to move out of state or if i HAD to move out of state to be with her) or if I had a career that moved with me (such as my writing when it takes off).
2. Where we'd go to chuch (IF we went to church) would depend on a) religious denomination, b) comfort in the possible church of choice, c)choice of whether to convert (if need be) or not.
What if......
she had a house already and you didn't - would you be cool with moving into hers, or would you HAVE to get your 'own' spot?
3. Been there, done that. only it was an apartment. I will NEVER move into a woman's place after marriage, nor would I have her move in with me. The ideal situation, I think, would be to start off new in OUR place. Start fresh. I wouldn't move in because when I was married, I never felt it was "my" or "our" home. The furniture was mostly hers, the decor was hers, the whole nine. I always felt like I was a visitor; that I was living by her rules, not OUR rules.
she was a different denonimation than you - would you 'make' her attend with you?
4. You cannot "make" anyone do anything. To chose a different denomination is a huge choice because spirituality is a very personal thing to folks. Would I convert? Maybe..though I doubt it because i'm not big on "religiousity" anyway and am more into spirituality.
(last one) what if you were already planning to find another church for yourself, but she loved hers - would you try to go to hers or just find one on your own?
EXCEPT your #3.
I purchased my home while dating my hubby he moved in a few months later and GUESS where we reside at?? In the home I purchased. We HOWEVER have redecorated to meet BOTH our needs.
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