Teach or Toss
to your last line. I am on the same page now. 
Well, I have a 3 strikes rule. I give the brother
1st time to be nervous or unprepared for how good it is
2nd time to redeem himself
3rd time we should be in the groove
Sometimes they don't make it to 3, but if they do, that's when I make my final assessment. I am not willing to teach a grown man anything, but I will tell him what I want, if he doesn't get that, then he's gotta go.
1st time to be nervous or unprepared for how good it is
2nd time to redeem himself
3rd time we should be in the groove
Sometimes they don't make it to 3, but if they do, that's when I make my final assessment. I am not willing to teach a grown man anything, but I will tell him what I want, if he doesn't get that, then he's gotta go.
It is never too late to be what you might have been
~George Eliot
Thank god you came on this post. I was about to think the cheese stood alone on this one. I am tossing if it aint working sexually. I am sorry. I don't have that to do. (no pun intended) I don't care how nice you are. We can stay friends and I can be getting good sex from somewhere else.
"Real change comes from within"
Ditto everything you said. 
ok, KT,
one of the things that gets a male into trouble is that belief that we are better than we actually are, agreed, based on all the millions of complaints that many women have. Granted. However, that works both ways.
A lot of times, that woman may say "That dude ain't chiot", "His technique is whack", etc. But, how many women actually sit down and ask, "What am I bringing to the table?" My personal experience has been that if ten women say they can "...have you curled up in a corner, sucking on your thumb, cryin' for yo' momma, and holdin' out yo' wallet for me to take..." only one or two are actually capable of it.
Yes, some of it has to do with your level of experience/what you are used to. Others, again like many men, think they are better than they actually are.
one of the things that gets a male into trouble is that belief that we are better than we actually are, agreed, based on all the millions of complaints that many women have. Granted. However, that works both ways.
A lot of times, that woman may say "That dude ain't chiot", "His technique is whack", etc. But, how many women actually sit down and ask, "What am I bringing to the table?" My personal experience has been that if ten women say they can "...have you curled up in a corner, sucking on your thumb, cryin' for yo' momma, and holdin' out yo' wallet for me to take..." only one or two are actually capable of it.
Yes, some of it has to do with your level of experience/what you are used to. Others, again like many men, think they are better than they actually are.
"When Alexander saw the breadth of his domain, he wept for there were no more worlds to conquer." Plutach. Not true, for there are always more worlds to conquer.
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Very true then that would fall under bad sex for a man. And that is up to him to teach or toss. Maybe you both are tossing I don't know. I can only speak from my perspective. What I would do in the situation. Thank god I haven't had too many situations that were sooo bad that I said Toss.
"Real change comes from within"
in my opinion if it was only mediocre it's because you didn't wait long enough, sex can be good with anyone when you're intune with one another...that takes time...you meet some people and you feel connected instantly.....others may take longer..but a connection is needed in order for the act itself to be truly gratifying...JMO...
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