Teach or Toss

Ok last week we discussed whether waiting 90 days to have sex with a man (or woman thats for you D ) is better or not. Ok so here is part 2 of the question. So you finally cross that line with the person. Whether ist 90 days or 90 minutes. And let's say its mediocre at best. What do you do? Do you stay and try and teach the person a better technique? Or do you toss the person to the side and keep it moving?

BAF what say you?

If it's just about the sex, I say possibly giving them one of two more times to see if it's better, but again if it's just about the sex, you won't feel bad for tossing them.

Now if this could blossom into something better as far as a lasting relationship.....Each One, Teach One.

Each one Teach one. Good saying. How much are you willing to teach? And what would you say your teaching technique is?

Hi K!

I know for me personally...I was kidding when I said in the previous post to "tell him that you don't want anything serious but you can just be friends".  While I do have a healthy libido, I am not all about the sexual prowess of the other person.  I would never kick someone to the curve if there were deficits in this area ( I mean its all gonna give out one day anyway for one or both of us...and then its on to Plan M).  If the person is capable of INTIMACY, this is more important to me than the sexual.  I was in a marriage for 11 years...the sex was great but the intimacy was a serious issue.  Had we given ourselves a chance to know each other better (as Mrs Rhonda had mentioned in one post I read earlier) before jumping into marriage and kids...we would probably have never married.   SO in short, if its someone that I  would like to get to know on a deeper level...Yes...I would stay around; however, if hes open to learning a few tricks...thats good too.        

But what if its really really bad? Would you stay in a relationship that the sex was bad but everything else was good?

Yes...as long as I knew the person cared deeply for me....its all good.

wow you are a better woman than me because I am tossing.

I just asked Dalexis the same question below, please answer from your perspective. 

I am just curious. What do you define as bad sex.... I mean is the person throwing up on you or do they have horrible body odor... I was merely refering to technique.  I am going to ask K the same question..because perhaps my frame of reference is askewed. 

Also a follow up question for you.  Say you are with this guy and you both are kicking it pretty hard...even serious...talking about taking things to another level...maybe already in that next level.  Unfortunately, he's in a car accident and now has a little kink in his hip. So  now the stroke is not all it used to be.  Would you kick him to the curve?   

How serious are we talking????