OT: What's your longest 'Mexican Standoff'?

# 1 MACK_MAMA
on 4/1/09 7:10 am
If you don't know.... the Mexican standoff is when both sides of an argument REFUSE to give in and stand strong to wait each other out......

Do you do this?  and IF you do - what's your longest one? 

I'm on day 6.......... I am well trained on how to do these - my mother does these and grudges to the DEATH - literally..... she is still mad at some DEAD people..... LOL!!!! 

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hershey dream
on 4/1/09 7:19 am - Duluth, GA

3 weeks and still going with my mother.  The woman is just plain unreasonable at times, but this time REALLY tops it.

Life is not about making it through the storm....but learning how to dance in the rain.      
# 1 MACK_MAMA
on 4/1/09 7:36 am
STAY STRONG my sista!!!! 

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ValueMe
on 4/1/09 7:53 am
Hey There MM:
I am a true Scorpio, so I can hold a grudge for Life. As I matured I realized how self defeating that was, how Spirit killing  that is. So now I evaluate what happened, I forgive (the person and myself), then I decide if I want to allow the person (s) back in my Life (completely, partially, at a distance or not at all). I had to understand the concept of empathy for person (s) who are sincere about their differences/feelings/actions, as well as restraint for person(s) that intentionally are out to hurt or mean Spirited.

I have learned that grudges/anger/hate can be tuned inward resulting in bitterness, self loathing, defensiveness and even self-esteem problems. Life is just to "short" for Me to carry around someone elses foolish burdens.
And I'm not even a "goody 2 shoes."

 

 

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(deactivated member)
on 4/1/09 8:14 am - Baltimore, MD
y'all better let that sh*t go. holdin grudges aint healthy. it messes up ya insides.

just let that sh*t go.
Kathleen T.
on 4/1/09 8:27 am
Yeah you are right but if that the only way I get what I want then it work.
"A Man's heart plans his way, But the Lord directs his steps. 
Proverb 16:9
May not be where I want to be but I glad to be where I'm at.
Working at getting the rest of the way.

12/10/2012 I'll be having LBL, BL/BA, thigh & arm lift, eyelid
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Kathleen T.
on 4/1/09 8:23 am
I hold a grudge for so long the HB forget what it all about but.  Trust me when he pucker-up and I look at him like he's lost him mine he remember 's  in a hurry.   At least a month I one stupid board when I mad.  I'm at a stand right now over getting another home(problem I have to hang that one up because my father is having major problems so I can't even find the info to start looking.) So my problem is he get to win for now.
PS.  I usually WIN especially if you really hold out.
"A Man's heart plans his way, But the Lord directs his steps. 
Proverb 16:9
May not be where I want to be but I glad to be where I'm at.
Working at getting the rest of the way.

12/10/2012 I'll be having LBL, BL/BA, thigh & arm lift, eyelid
Body by Dr. Sauceda    booked to 12/9--12/22
nikkemo
on 4/1/09 11:33 pm - Orange, CA
 A year with my dad.  I'm like your mother, I'll hold a grudge until the death.  I got some people on my list that I haven't spoke to since the 3d grade.
Hugga76
on 4/2/09 12:34 am
MM,
I can hold a grudge for years, it ain't nothing for me to cut someone out of my life when I think that they are toxic. 
I have a "friend" who did some f'd up schitt to me about four years ago.  We started speaking 2 years ago but I still look at the biotch out the corner of my eye. 
Sometimes I think that I should have just cut her out completely because I just can't trust her any further than I can throw her and I can't lift that hoe.

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# 1 MACK_MAMA
on 4/2/09 1:08 am
you are straight up OFF DA CHAIN for that right there - can't trust her further than you can throw her? - yeah - you mighta done better to have just left her alone......

but HEY - why put off for tomorrow what you could do TODAY?  LOL

I don't just have issues, I have subscriptions!  I'm saving on the newsstand price.......

Check out my dating mis - adventures at: http://1macdatinggame.blogspot.com/

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