What do you think BAF???? (OT and kinda long)

The advertising is unbalanced.  There are a lot of good men out there.  Women just don't talk about them because someone is always looking to take him.  I've always been told to never tell how good your man is...  But it's okay to talk about the deadbeats.   I have several co-workers who specialize in married men.  They won't even look at a single guy because he hasn't been tested and proven.  They like to look at what the married man is doing for his wife and family and try to take that for themselves. 

See, I did not know that was the rule LOL and trust, that has happened to me TWICE.....and all married men are not good either....so your co-workers tripping....if he disrespects his marriage and family with them.....do they really think he will leave them?!  There are cases this happens, but more less than often.  

Hey Boo Boo

Hey Doll ~smooches~

I consider myself a good person with a good heart.  I am one of those people that often have their kindness mistaken for weakness......WRONG.  I don't like bashing...and I think that all people have something good to contribute.  Don't get me wrong...there are people...particularly at work that get on  my last nerve but  even then I try my best to build a positive rapport with them.  I know that this is a serious issue when it comes to woman on woman relationships. Some of us are able to develop healthy relationships with our "Girlfriends" and others have a real problem trusting other woman.  They either think that the other person is going to steal their man or stab them in the back in other ways.  I mean some of these concerns can be valid based on who you are dealing with...that's why its so important to choose your BFFs carefully.  Another thing that causes harm to our society and male /female relationships is all those darn rump shaking in the videos, pole dancing, pimping, whoring, womanizing and other self denigrating behaviors.  A lot of young girls and  boys grow up thinking that this is the way it is.  Its discouraging at time...but I am so happy to see a healthy happy family oriented black family in the WHITE HOUSE.  Now some of the kids (particularly those in jacked up homes) can at least get a glimpse of how people are suppose to act. These are just my opinions and I think that there does come a time in everyone's life when they need to put away childish things.       

LAWD! I went off on a tangent...I sort of... kind of responded to your thread.

I TOTALLY understand....cos I am one of the *****es that don't trust coochie easy!  Really, women have to EARN my trust....I have SEVERAL associates and unlimited *****ES I know, but my TRUE friends are few and far in between!!!!  As I stated earlier, before I wised up....two skanks (one had been my friend, dear friend for over 10 years....tried to jack my man by telling him ****yeah, my husband...and the skank was married her dayum self)....I have SEVERE trust issues, but I am secure in my marriage and that makes a major difference.

Ummm, 

I'm just on here to say  I LOVE YOU!!!!!!!!!!  I tried to post Sunday and give you a good recipe for asparagus but I was doing from my ol' janky phone.  Anyway,  I owe you a phone call, lady.  Glad to see you on here....not many of us left from the olden days!

I love you, Mere Mere!  Yeah, hook me up with the recipe via email....I am going to be on it when I come from Alabama.....aspargus, egg plant, and some more brussel sprouts.

Very Good Points!!!!





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