Piggyback off DeDee's "What do you think BAF..." post.

Dalexis
on 3/31/09 11:53 pm - Brooklyn, NY
So true.
Like seemingly all other behaviors, they are learned.  Oftenwise, while experience is the best teacher, many of us are not the best at taking these experiences and learning from them.  

lol

"When Alexander saw the breadth of his domain, he wept for there were no more worlds to conquer."   Plutach.  Not true, for there are always more worlds to conquer.

www.myspace.com/dalexis863

PrettyPlum
on 3/31/09 11:58 pm, edited 4/1/09 12:04 am
Just want to say that this is a great topic. Im enjoying reading it from both perspectives.

I also want to add that the people that dont appreciate us,  or you or whomever  are most often the ones with the issues. 

Be it insecurity,  ego tripping,  greedy, ignorance, selfish,  sex addicts, player mentality......there are a many number of reasons why people cheat.  Its not always about what " We" didnt bring to the table.

Many times its what the other person is lacking and trying to compensate that makes them stray or  underappreciate what they have.

I am living proof and I pondered for many years on why my " thug " couldnt get with all of me.
Quite honestly,  he couldnt handle all of me and it was just easier for him to get with the project chick who was already somebody's babies momma cause that is what complimented his lack of ego.

Im so over him and anybody else who cant appreciate my good stuff.  Their loss...and my gain because it brought me to a greater level of awareness about myself and made me elevate my game. 

Simply put  Im the " bomb " and his teeny weenie lackluster flame wasnt strong enough to keep us ignited.  He's blown out and long gone and yet,  Im still the " bomb " 

 

In life,  and especially on this journey there are sure to be days when you falter and give in.......just remember to never give up.  

 

 

 








 

Dalexis
on 4/1/09 12:04 am - Brooklyn, NY
Yes, Plum, you are INDEED da' bomb. 

And, i'm working on that lunch date, fellow Vz worker. :) 

"When Alexander saw the breadth of his domain, he wept for there were no more worlds to conquer."   Plutach.  Not true, for there are always more worlds to conquer.

www.myspace.com/dalexis863

PrettyPlum
on 4/1/09 12:08 am
Man,  say when and where...you know a big girl in rehab....cant pass up a good meal.

And I'm not selfish either ......
I can spring for the beverages and the extra condiments if need be.

Make it a great one !

 

In life,  and especially on this journey there are sure to be days when you falter and give in.......just remember to never give up.  

 

 

 








 

Dalexis
on 4/1/09 12:10 am - Brooklyn, NY
Oooooh, extra condiments?  Yummmmy (loooooove that ketchup!) lol. 

Which building are u in these days, anyway?  I'm in one of the dungeons at West St. 

"When Alexander saw the breadth of his domain, he wept for there were no more worlds to conquer."   Plutach.  Not true, for there are always more worlds to conquer.

www.myspace.com/dalexis863

PrettyPlum
on 4/1/09 12:15 am
36th Street,  around the corner from Macy's.

I was thinking more so honey mustard,  but  ketchup works too. 

 

In life,  and especially on this journey there are sure to be days when you falter and give in.......just remember to never give up.  

 

 

 








 

Dalexis
on 4/1/09 12:25 am - Brooklyn, NY
okay.  sounds good.  Honey mustard will make me dump..hell, so will ketchup.  lol

"When Alexander saw the breadth of his domain, he wept for there were no more worlds to conquer."   Plutach.  Not true, for there are always more worlds to conquer.

www.myspace.com/dalexis863

MIDDLE MAN
on 4/1/09 12:05 am - GA

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Dalexis
on 4/1/09 12:08 am - Brooklyn, NY
What's up with the popcorn munching, man?  I KNOW you have something to contribute.  so,spill. 

"When Alexander saw the breadth of his domain, he wept for there were no more worlds to conquer."   Plutach.  Not true, for there are always more worlds to conquer.

www.myspace.com/dalexis863

PrettyPlum
on 4/1/09 12:12 am
Hope thats the 100 calorie- 94% fat free  popcorn Man. 

Chime in on this conversation Nas.........dialogue is definately good.  

 

In life,  and especially on this journey there are sure to be days when you falter and give in.......just remember to never give up.  

 

 

 








 

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