ot/ A NICE QUIET CONSERVATIVE "CHURCH" GIRL.....

Okay, I re-read the thread.

You're purpose was just to hit it anyway?  Dude, not for nothing, but that is effed up. 

It's situations like that that have sooooo many black women thinking that a lot of us ain't chiot.  Seems to me that she isn't the only one to flip.  I'm sure on ur profile you don't say that ur sole intention is to fugg a christian chic****il she cries, "Oh, Jesus!".

I may catch hell for this, but fugg it, so be it.  I look at this shiot and it pissed me as a black MAN off that there are soooo many dudes out here perpetrating at being MEN and making those of us that do the right thing, or try to, get lumped in with the rest. 

Why do people feel the need to lie about what they want.  There are dating sites that are just for booty calls.  Why people gotta go to the Christian sites acting like they want a real relationship when they know they just want to "hit it."  I just don't get it.  Why we still playing these lame A$$ games.

I really dont care what women think about other dudes I made it clear that I am not looking for any  type of relationship and I am adult who makes adult decisions and I am upfront about it, it no different than a man who takes a woman out for dinner and drinks and in the back of his mind he knows what he wants!! I   come from a swingers lifestyle and at least they were upfront about what they wanted and  there was less drama, whats wrong with someone  who takes a woman out  treats her nice and  is looking for a sexual relationship with her? I have been married before and I have no intentions on getting married again  and until things change I will continue to life my life as I please  as long as I am safe  and upfront.

"I   come from a swingers lifestyle and "

But you went to a Christian website.  Why didn't you opt for Adult Friend Finder instead?

because I   didnt want to go to adult friend finder,  I was not looking for a "booty call" but   healthy sexual relationship which I am sure many on this site have  but dont  want ot admit it, me on the other hand I have no shame  in what I want or what  I do.

  we had a rocky start off to the day - but I appreciate you right about now, D.  Perpetrating azz fraud NICCAS **** it up for REAL MEN.

See - I TOLD you that fence around the 'island' wasn't high enough - they STILL gettin out!!!!! 

So did you say your grace before you "ate"?

NEGROOOOOO....YOU ARE A "NUT".....

  @ "fugg a christian chic****il she cries, "Oh, Jesus!". "



D, I agree with you....

What if this chic was not so   You mean to say that it was fair to just "hit it",  What if she was or could have been the most perfect person for you; do you think that was cool! 

Maybe, just maybe you are paying for you just wanting to "hit it" Karma is a biotch and believe me I don't think that's the end of it.  You better do more than change your phone number, you might wanna change your profile on this christian dating website you are a member of!!!!!!

I was not looking for a "booty call" but   healthy sexual relationship.

This may be where things got twisted.  Relationship mean different things for different people.  But most people agree that it's meant for something long term.  If you aren't looking for a relationship, then don't put it out there.  I would use the words datings or friendship, friends with benefits, cuddy buddy, homegirl to kick it with in the day but a freak at night.  Anything other than relationship. Relationship is misleading.

As for ole girl, personally I think one of 2 things happened.

1.  It was so good that she realized that you was the one based on sex alone and now she is going crazy because she wasn't mentally prepared for a sex on the first night date and now she's remorseful
OR
2.  It wasn't really her cup of tea and she is playing crazy and involving the only people crazy enough to call a total stranger on some effin BS like that which you have discribed.

Either way, I would write her out and be happy you got some.