ot/ A NICE QUIET CONSERVATIVE "CHURCH" GIRL.....

OK I  have not been on here in a while but here goes, I have  started dating again  and one of the mediums I use is meeting  people on the net dating sites, well one of the sites i used was a "christian" dating site so I had  of my ads up on here and I have received several responses from people ( i was even shocked when a married guy sent me a response)  but that another story for another time,  well i meet this one young lady and we talk for a few weeks  and this Saturday we decided to go out, so since she does not drink we went to a nice dinner club with jazz music and we had a nice dinner, after this  we leave and I drive her home, when we get to her house she asked me if I needed to freshen up or use the rest room before I go  because I had at least an hour drive  so I go inside and use the rest room and when I come out to my surprise my nice conservative church girl   is wearing a  see through nightie, and high heals!!! and she   has some grinding music playing on the  CD player,  as I come  out the door she nearly attacks me and  needless to say to make a long story short we christened every room in her house!!! I get up the next morning to leave and she is sad and withdrawn so i ask her whats wrong and she  said she didn't know what came over her and that I should not have given in because i known of her strong beliefs!!!  and she didn't know if she could face the people in church  that morning, so anyway  she called me yesterday afternoon and she told me she got up in front of her Church and confessed everything  and not only that  but her pastor wanted to talk to " us" !!!I told her she was crazy and  I would not do that so anyway she has been calling me all day  and she even gave my number to some of her church elders so whats a guy to do?  do I report them for stalking me  or should I go up there and kick some  *ss?  ladies  why do people flip the script like this?  I need some help!!!

"Christened" every room, huh? LOL

In this day in time I feel a lot of people use the word "Christian" so loosely. I look around how some portray to be Christians, Elders and Pastors and do some things they should be paid to do. I do realize we are all sinners BUT also realize some use that title just because THEY CAN.

Oddly, I was discussing this subject with one of my co-workers the other day and said to her some of the most HONEST people I know are the ones who DON'T go to church. What would I do? Change my number and look for the next "CHRISTIAN" girl . That chick there sounds like she is missing some fries out of her happy meal.

WOW....I guess when you decide to take that plunge, you gotta be ready for whatever happens the next day.  Granted, this IS a bit far-fetched though. 

I think you should just talk to her and let her know that you have no intentions of discussing any of this with the people at her church.  She needs to get right on her own.  Run....real fast away from her....she must have some hidden issues that I don't think you want to let loose.

OMG, I thought I had some crazy dates but um this wins it.  I hope you used protection because if you got her pregnant, the whole church will be at your door demanding you marry her...lol.  Just be real with her and tell her it was ONE date and you aren't looking for anything more.  She's grown and she has to deal with her actions.  You might have to change your number but I would tell those folks to leave me alone and if you feel the need to explain your self so be it but you really don't owe them an explanation.

What's up, B_C

First, from a fellow man's point of view, be very very wary of those who profess to be "Christians" in that every one who professes that, in my humble opinion, is not what they may present themselves to me.

I've quite a few female friends who tell me they've met men who were, "good men with jobs and they go to church..."   That someone goes to church doesn't guarantee they are good for you, for the churches are full of what I call "Six Day Heathens *****st on the seventh day.."

Also, man, be leery of the online stuff.  While you may be sincere in how you present yourself online, it is very tempting / easy to put up a representative of one's self.  After all, on the 'net, one can literally be anyone they want. 

Not saying to leave the sites alone..just be very careful.  Unless you actually WANT that "Christian" who will "christsen" every room every day and twice on saturdays (remember.. gotta rest up on Sunday). lol. 

Peace, man

Oh let me be clear, my intention was to " hit it" that my whole purpose of dating, I just don't want people calling me up the next day telling me its my fault for someone Else's decision to fall, Oh  and if anyone else wants that website hit me up on the back line..........

Ok, now see...you've started something else.  Are you representing yourself truthfully by seeking out women on a Christian dating site?

Huh? Karma is a mofo. I hope her ass really gets psycho on you....SMDH

what???!!!    hole up - that's YOUR whole purpose???

Then why you on the Christian site, bruh?  Ok - NOW I'm thinkin shady thoughts on your part man.......

Wow! I would have not responded if I saw this message earlier. I take back what I said...if she starts shooting up some things...