OT dating question

gotcha, Kim.

However, you and I both know that others read these thing for ideas also.  Not just ur Angelette, babe. :) 

Just putting out other perspectives. 

Thanks my Angel I will and I'll call you later

You are absolutely right my lovely Angel

gmornting Val

LMAO @ I don't know these dudes they could be the killer

guuuurl i came across one dude who in the 1st 20 words of our conversation asked for the # (we were talking on a dedicated "double blind" #) now instead of pullin out the i'm-not-gonna-end-up-on-the-news speech i just said i'd rather take yours if you're comfortable leaving it or keep talking on this here # that doesn't belong to either of us (didn't cost anything to dial in) - gurl, he baaa'roke.  on line dating has taught me (at least) 2 things:  if you come across a dude who isn't willing to consider your feelings and perspective even if he doesn't agree with em, good riddance and crazy people don't know they're crazy.    and yeah things have changed that much, most consistent find: they thot that meeting on the internet means they get to skip the courtin and "get right to it"

Ms. Marlo I swir foe claude you have never lied!  LMBO @ crazy people don't know they crazy. Thanks diva

Unfortunately it's not you and that scares me cause it seems like crazy and clingy is the new trend.  I had a similar situation last month, super clingy dude had the nerve to check me for not calling him back IMMEDIATELY.  Told me he need to talk er'day.   Do you, if something rubs you the wrong way, keep it movin'

And that is exactly the vibe I'm getting from ole boy that he will be clingy and needy and I can't do needy it's one thing to have someone who's caring and truly into you and it's another to be involved with someone who needs to be with you, see you, talk to you every waking minute or so they believe.  That may work for some woman all that would do for me is work my nerves. Thank you Diva

It's not you, it's them.  Maybe they have learned from past dating experiences that if they say those things, a woman will want to get closer to them much faster than if they her they want a friendship or to be bed buddies for a while.  That's a red flag for me and I would run for the hills.  I'm not cool with the whole lying thing.  I like for men to be upfront and honest with me from the get go so I can make up my own mind about whether they are worth pursuing or not.