I deserve better.......

Well I'll stand with you sister! I may have a different take on it a little since I was slim before and then gained the 140 lbs. I had some "momma dearest" issues that I mentioned in my post from Saturday which gave me some baggage when dealing with folks ie "if you love/like me you'd do this for me...." I had self esteem issues as a skinny chick had to become a fat biotch to deal with the issues and then had WLS to repair the damage I did during those years.