Wayyyy OT

the very next lines in that song are:
 
BUT I'M 'BOUT TO TAKE MY EARRINGS OFF, GET ME SOME VASELINE!!

(you betta go on get out my face girl you betta chill)

CHILL AND I MEAN IT!!

(you betta back down before you get smacked down you betta chill)

hadda feeling somebody would happilly point that out.   it's my personal view sam not advocating how anybody else should behave.   i'd fight over my chirrun or in self defense but to give him the impression that he's that important, can't do it and as you pointed out, he's the one i'm involved with, if i hooked off on anybody it'd be him.

my thoughts exactly!! 

I never had a fight over my ex....but I came pretty close.  And let me add, it wasnt over him...it was over how the girl tried to play me.  He wasnt worth my time when he was mine-  honestly speaking.

It was in Bronx  family court of all places.  My daughter's father had me served so he could get the weekly child support money reduced.  Shaking  my head....... 

When I got there.....he was there with his now wife -then girlfriend and their 3 kids.  The kids were dressed like they were going to church on Easter Sunday.  
Til this day still cant figure that one out.

Anyway I took the day off from work anticipating that it would be a whole day affair.  I refused to take my daughter out of school for that drama cause court is not some kind of playground. Tempers are on high and the whole atmosphere is just plain negative.  My child didnt need to witness none of it.

Needless to say.....while we were waiting for hours for our names to be called I got up to go to the bathroom and his now wife -then girlfriend tried to trip me.  I was shocked and I was looking cute too.  I couldnt beleive it,  She actually put her foot out as I walked past. 
 And I stumbled, but caught my balance thankfully.  
We started arguing big time in the area right in front of the kids and her fool of a man. 
He was sitting up there like James Evans feeling good.  I was sooooooo heated.  The court officer came over to break up the commotion and asked what happened. I told him and he asked plainly who was there handling court business.

I quickly told him that I was brought in to court regarding my child with that man and I pointed to my daughters father.  I also told him the girl that tried to trip me was his chicken head and that the little choir  was there kids together who had nothing to do with my child support case.

The guard escorted her and her Easter sunday looking bebe's kids out the court waiting area  and I laughed my behind off.   The kicker was that I beat him in court that day.  The judge absolutely refused to reduce my child support and told him if he were smart,  he would look for another job to support all of the kids properly.   I dipped out the  court  and hopped into a cab cause I know after winning she would have definately wanted to beat me down. 

 But I was on cloud 9 about the proceedings.   

You really won in the long run because she is the one who is stuck with that loser.

I can't stand a TROUT ass mouth *****!!!  VONDA YOU GOT DOWN WITH THAT ONE.

Me and the ex went head up.  I was 5 month pregnant and found out that he had a side chick and she had been up in my house on my bed that I brought with my hard earned money.  She left a bracelet( you know how women do) and wanted to come get it.  That heffa even had the nerve to try and rub my belly.  He was at work at the time and I waited until he step one foot in the door and started swinging.  He didn't hit me back but he had to contain me.  I was pissed and he was gonna die.  Then my BIL came and packed up my stuff. 

The next time was when ex's side piece and her homegirl came over to see my son when he came out the hospital.  He was like 5 days old and I was at the store when they arrived.  I was hot already and hood rat came outside to my car and poppin off at the mouth about some bull****  There ain't nothing I hate more than a dirty ****** hoodrat.  Pregnancy hormones were raging and these hoes were up in the cut.  I must have cussed that hoe out and as I started to swing, idiot ex came out the house and made them leave.

Last time, ex came to pick up my son. I asked him to help out financially so I could by the baby some diapers.  He told me something about having a mortgage and car note and I went smooth off.  I was so loud that the neighbors start coming out the house, I woke my daddy up.  He came and got me.  My son was staring at me and that was the last time I ever even attempted to fight that crazy SOB.  That was the last time I asked him  for anything for my son.  After this the last time I saw him was up in court getting his ass handed to him by my attorney.
 
In my defense, I was young and silly.  I would never fight now.  I wouldn't risk losing my son for nothing now. 
 

OMG...I was playing the story out in my head and cracking up lmao...That is crazy.

It is funny in a sick twisted psycho kinda way.  We was real triflin back in the day.  I grew up and on and he still doing the same mess to a different broad.  Next woman won't be as nice as I was.  Its sad.

girl whew... that was something else. My child's sperm doner is trife like that too. But I don't let it get to me. I ask him for NOTHING for my child. That way I can keep the drama to a minimum. Plus I get to make all the decisions.