IRL Support System

Well this was from jump when I first made my decision to have WLS so that don't apply. lol

I do not have a support system, my hubby saids he likes big things, big cars(he has one of them) big house( we have that) and big women( no longer for me).  He said he actually liked me better thin. WTF!!!! My mom is happy that I lost the weight becuase of all of the health problems I had she was so worried about me and not taking care of herself! But she does make comments like you look like you gained, then will say now you are losing to much!

I really dont have many friends that live close by, I do have one girlfriend who was negative about the WLS because she had a friend who lost about 50lbs and gained it all back. However, she worked out with me 5 days a week becuase she had wanted to loose some weight! Now she saids she is looking at having the lap band. I told her with the amount of weight she needs to loose she should go with the RNY. I didnt have many complications from it and at 21months out I am starting to loose once again! MY goal is to loose 20 more pounds but my hubby doesnt want me to loose anymore. He thinks I am going to leave him once I am skinny being skinny would have nothing to do with it if I would leave him!

hate to break it to him - but if all you got to lose is 20 more lbs - you ALREADY skinny!!!!  LOL 

Only 20 more to I get to my goal I am at the surgeons goal!

Someone already schooled him on that!!!!  he is in denial!!

I sure do have a IRL support system.  I actually had this in place prior to finding OH.  However, I am extremely thankful that I found OH and then BAF because I have truly made some invaluable friends who offer their support anytime it is needed.