Am I The Only 1 With BM/BF Drama

Hi BAF...I know this is a sensitive topic because it has to indirectly do with your children but I was wondering whether anyone had baby mama or baby daddy drama or do you cause it... It is not really bad in my relationship...I am in my twenties but my fiance is 35 with two children 15 and 14...We have a strong relationship (We have had our share of issues)...but he lets nobody come between us and that means NOBODY...The drama is not too much of an issue because if either one is disrespecting me and/or our home he will allow me to change the number and cut off all ties and then the contact is through sis sisters...I think that is a great way to deal with it...Not to mention the children are older so it is not as extreme as it would be dealing with younger children...I love his kids but am not that involved...I do not have children but we plan on having one in the next 3 years...

FYI: He is a GREAT father to his children and my 8 year old brother I raise and he takes care of his kids 1000% but whether you agree or disagree he puts me before EVERYONE even himself.

Do you guys have our cause drama and how do you deal with your kids other parent. I see some that have it worse and a little better than I do.

Disclaimer: These are my views and nobody can change my opinion so please do not tell me if I am right or wrong, just looking to know how others deal with it.

*I* don't have any issues with my daugther's father cause he went GHOST when she was 6 mos and ain't NEVA came back!!!!!!  LOL

As for my BF's ole lady.....we got us a 'tacit' agreement.  she know errythang bout me - I know errythang bout her and we keep our azzes in our respective corners..... I am JUST WAITING for that bytch to say SOMETHING!!!!!

(C.C. - THIS would be the mofo I would PRETEND yo' nephew's former chick is - and I would BEAT THAT AZZ DOWN SO HARD!!!!  OMG - I am clenching my teeth right NOW thinkin bout it!!!!)

LOL!!!! 

My ex-husband and I are BEST FRIENDS... He married a SNOW FLAKE... ***SMH*** But whatever...  ANYWHO... He has been with this chick for 5 years... WHY she sent my son a check for $116.00 and got BIG... This TROUT had the nerve to speak when not spoken too...  I shut it DOWNNNNNNNNNNNN... James put your TROUT back in the SEA before I fly the FUCK to AZ...  Don't TEST MY GANSTA you TRICK MONSTA... He went to apologize because he already knew she was wrong...

I had to let her know... when I'm speaking to James about any of my children... DON'T OPEN YO MOUTH FISH~

So we ALL have an UNDERSTANDING!!! LOL

LMAO...I am not involved in any conversations but I am around when all conversations occur which are over the phone for the most part.

Some woman just don't know thier place... This was her FIRST AND LAST TIME saying anything... Girl I got so mad I came to the computer looking for a FLIGHT!!!  LOL...  He called me the next day!!! 

I totally AGREE with you---being a stepmother to kids who has a GOOD FATHER...I only voice my opinions to HIM.....I never talk with her about their kids....(not rageddy...we have conversed about their schooling....actions and **** but no drama).....They made dem babies, I let dem handle that cos I know if a TRICK eva ~rolling eyes~ EVA tried to voice her mouf bout my babies....Imma being serving tongue for supper!

I would rather be neutral with them and have an open thing but time will tell what the outcome will be.

I see you just waiting to open a can of "whoop dat azz" on SOMEBODY!!!

Girl - I am like Sam L in 'Pulp Fiction'...........

SAY WHAT AGAIN!!!!!!! 

My stepdaughters' mother passed away a couple of years ago, so that is not an issue for us.  We have kept the doors open for them to have a relationship with their paternal grandfather, but it's just not happening.  He hasn't made much of an effort to spend time with them.  He's always too busy.  The more time that passes, the less they care.  It's his loss.