Ok, shows over....
*****sitting in the corner wondering why people bring up the bible regarding adultery, but not pre-marital nook nook...I"m just saying---going back to the corner*****
"When Alexander saw the breadth of his domain, he wept for there were no more worlds to conquer." Plutach. Not true, for there are always more worlds to conquer.
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Pre-marital sex is a sin, point-blank. I have never denied that. I struggle with temptation as does everyone else. I have a child from such temptation.
I have to ask though...which is worse? Sex between two adults that aren't married or stepping out on your marriage, consenual or not?
Stepping away from the bible, why be married? Just live however you want and have someone to share the bills.
I don't share well and never would share the man that I plan to spend the rest of my life with. I take the commitment of marriage as very serious.
I have to wonder how someone reaches the point that they are willing to share their spouse...give their goods away to another man? Come home to that man that they lay up with day after day, sharing the struggles, having children, etc... and know that he's sharing the good-good and vice-versa? Not for me...
I have to ask though...which is worse? Sex between two adults that aren't married or stepping out on your marriage, consenual or not?
Stepping away from the bible, why be married? Just live however you want and have someone to share the bills.
I don't share well and never would share the man that I plan to spend the rest of my life with. I take the commitment of marriage as very serious.
I have to wonder how someone reaches the point that they are willing to share their spouse...give their goods away to another man? Come home to that man that they lay up with day after day, sharing the struggles, having children, etc... and know that he's sharing the good-good and vice-versa? Not for me...
Treena,I am not trying to come off to hard,but???? Why are you all of a sudden in this situation with your marriage where you are becoming bored.You always seem to me on this board as if you are so into your marriage and everything is really on the money and not boredom,did you forget you have to make your marriage how you want it to be.It is up to you and your spouse.You have to put that spice into it by trying different things,just the two of you, I believe in and no one else.!19 years of enjoyment and now you want to try something knew,I Don't'Think So!!!! Try taking care of you and spouse in ways you have never done.Remember 46 years for us and girl we are not looking for other couples to spiced things up for us.Love You Treena
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Hey Treena,
Given how long you and hubby have been together. Its understandable to be bored........you both have been together 1/2 your lives....
But you just need to find ways to spice it up in the marriage .....toys, creams, whips, or what have you to get your mojo back and...
other ways outside of your marriage to reinvent yourself socially, emotionally or what have you with friends ( male and female ) thru other ventures such as personal endeavors, hobbies, even weekend trips so that when you and hubby get together its all the more enjoyable.
No one person, not your husband, partner or even your kids can be our everything ......its true....thats where family and friends play a big part in keeping folks sane. Trust me I know........
Opening up your bedroom is just opening up the door to the devil in my opinion.
Wishing you peace thru this storm girly !
Given how long you and hubby have been together. Its understandable to be bored........you both have been together 1/2 your lives....
But you just need to find ways to spice it up in the marriage .....toys, creams, whips, or what have you to get your mojo back and...
other ways outside of your marriage to reinvent yourself socially, emotionally or what have you with friends ( male and female ) thru other ventures such as personal endeavors, hobbies, even weekend trips so that when you and hubby get together its all the more enjoyable.
No one person, not your husband, partner or even your kids can be our everything ......its true....thats where family and friends play a big part in keeping folks sane. Trust me I know........
Opening up your bedroom is just opening up the door to the devil in my opinion.
Wishing you peace thru this storm girly !
In life, and especially on this journey there are sure to be days when you falter and give in.......just remember to never give up. 
Treena,
Marriage is HARD work. The hardest job I have ever had - and I've had some hard ones. We can sometimes get comfortable, complacent and lazy at this marriage game. If we are lucky something will happen to shock us out of it and remind us of just why we are with our partners.
An OPEN marriage is open to you and your spouse's interpretation. Before you consider that consider spending some more quality time with your husband, your partner and best friend. Date again, explain and discuss what you both feel is missing in your lives and together go out and get it - What ever it is.
There's a whole world of sex and sexuality. From Toys to Toy boys and girls. Explore it together. Read erotica, write erotica, visit some risque clubs "TOGETHER". What working woman has not at some time though about needing "a wife" or another husband. But for real - you don't really want that. Somethings are easy to get into but will change your relationship forever - It's possible to go past the point of no return. You don't want to do that on a whim or because of momentary boredom.
Hang in there - the spring is coming and you will be able to shake the boredom. Come and go shopping on my site. I can reccomend some stuff to shake your boredom away.
mysweettemptation.com
Marriage is HARD work. The hardest job I have ever had - and I've had some hard ones. We can sometimes get comfortable, complacent and lazy at this marriage game. If we are lucky something will happen to shock us out of it and remind us of just why we are with our partners.
An OPEN marriage is open to you and your spouse's interpretation. Before you consider that consider spending some more quality time with your husband, your partner and best friend. Date again, explain and discuss what you both feel is missing in your lives and together go out and get it - What ever it is.
There's a whole world of sex and sexuality. From Toys to Toy boys and girls. Explore it together. Read erotica, write erotica, visit some risque clubs "TOGETHER". What working woman has not at some time though about needing "a wife" or another husband. But for real - you don't really want that. Somethings are easy to get into but will change your relationship forever - It's possible to go past the point of no return. You don't want to do that on a whim or because of momentary boredom.
Hang in there - the spring is coming and you will be able to shake the boredom. Come and go shopping on my site. I can reccomend some stuff to shake your boredom away.
mysweettemptation.com
Peace & Blessings, Sharon
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