Ok, shows over....

Jus ChanJ N ME
on 3/11/09 4:57 am, edited 3/11/09 12:32 pm

 

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HelpMeRhonda !!
on 3/11/09 5:04 am, edited 3/11/09 5:04 am - J. R. Ewing, TX
Nope not in a open marriage never will be in one.  If he is "bored" he can tear his azz, if I am "bored" I will tear my azz. That simple.

I have only been married for almost "3" years and do understand what work for some may not work for others.  I truly believe that is why some marriages don't work because of all this "NEW" stuff that is going on now, and many have forgotten abou the old "traditional" marriages, we saw our parents/grandparents share.

The ONLY thing I am sharing is BILLS.

Now sitting back waiting for others to post.


Jus ChanJ N ME
on 3/11/09 6:09 am, edited 3/11/09 12:22 pm
Jus ChanJ N ME
on 3/11/09 5:07 am
Phatlexus
on 3/11/09 5:09 am - Grace Land, MD
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LadyJwb
on 3/11/09 5:19 am - Philadelphia, PA
I know you shouldn't answer a question with a question, but what if you like the "OTHER"person better then your spouse.

Okay to answer your question NEVERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR I got your open marriage just say you want to have a fling and get it over with . I don't want to share nothing , but the bill like ms.Rhonda said and sometimes that needs to be paid by the other person.
 
Girl Go get you a hobby, I'm loving scrap booking...LOL Hope this feeling passes soon .What is the hubby going to think when he read your post?
Jus ChanJ N ME
on 3/11/09 5:22 am
LadyJwb
on 3/11/09 5:24 am - Philadelphia, PA
It Is What It Is!!!
on 3/11/09 5:46 am - Boston, MA
Hi Treena, (sorry if I mispelled it)... 

I've been lurking too, but  I just wanted to post my thoughts.  I had never heard of an Open Marriage until recently!  I am actually confused as to why a person would want to "Share" his or her spouse with another?  Personally, I ain't sharing anything.  What's mine is mine, etc.

I just think on a spiritual and biblical level, it takes the meaning out of  Marriage, unity, being joined together, flesh of my flesh, bone of my bone, etc. 

See none of that makes sense to me if I am going to be giving the goodies to someone else just for a moment or two.  What happens next?  I would feel awful KNOWING I cheated, because truth be told, you are still cheating on your spouse whether he/she knows or not.  

I guess to some it up, if we are bored in our marriage and nothing else is working, maybe it's time to really think of leaving it alone altogther.  IF that's not an option, than neither should "sharing", "stepping out for a moment", "being Open", etc.  What GOD has joined together, let NO ONE come in between (not even for excitement) unless the excitement is between the two of you....

THIS IS JUST MY OPINION and no I am NOT married, but I was once and I will be again someday and I have no intentions of sharing with anyone else.  When I say I do, I will and to ONLY him, and for one good reason would be he knows what he is getting and I know what I am getting and I do NOT want anyone else getting it.....  LOL

In Jesus Name....  Have a blessed day.....
taw1975
on 3/11/09 5:38 am - DFW, TX
Adultery is defined simply as
voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and someone other than his or her lawful spouse.

As a Christian, Adultery is the most condemned of the sexual sins--it is mentioned in the Ten Commandments, all four Gospels and ten other books. 

You shall not commit adultery. (NIV, Exodus 20:14)

But a man who commits adultery lacks judgment; whoever does so destroys himself. (NIV, Proverbs 6:32)

Other religions believe equally--
Adultery in Islam is one of the most heinous and deadliest sins. 

The Qur'an says:
(And come not near unto adultery. Lo! it is an abomination and an evil way) (Al-Isra’ 17: 32).

In Judaism Adultery is the ultimate crime against the family.


So anyway you clean it up, make it consenual, call it something else...it's still adultery.

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